Quoting aubrees-mommy:" wow reading all this is mAKING ME scared now.. i had a 2nd degree tear it wasnt bad just a few stitches ... [snip!] ... out we will have to use forceps and bam she came in that push. i have been nervous bout tearing again but seeing this just wow."
Sorry, not trying to scare anyone! I talked with the midwife and she set me up a consultation with the doctor just so I can talk about having a c-section. She helped me feel better about a vaginal birth though, she said she's known a lot of women who even with a terrible tear the first time, they didn't tear the second time. I'm leaning towards having a vaginal birth if I have a choice. However, somebody is being stubborn and won't turn head down.
I found some things i can do to encourage him to turn, so wish me luck!