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We're going to have to let him go...

posted 31st Jan
Well he can't hold on any longer. I thought my cat was starting to do better, drinking water, trying to use the bathroom, cleaning himself, and even purring again.
But today when I got home from work he was worse. He can barirly walk, and he is completely blocked again. He is also bleeding out of his mouth.
I can't do this. I can't loose him. But I can't let him suffer any more.
So now I guess we will just wait for my Mom to get off (she said she would pay to put him down if it came down to it).
I don't want to loose my baby but I don't want him to hurt anymore.
I hate sounding selfish but I don't know what I'm going to do without him. I love him so much. I can't imagine coming home tomorrow and him not being here. I can't breathe. Why did this happen?
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I have 2 kids & live in Kentucky
posted 31st Jan
Aww I'm sorry  
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I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Vancouver, British Columbia
posted 31st Jan
I'm sorry hun  
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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in California
posted 31st Jan
Awww I'm so sorry  
Just think what is better for kitty.
I just had to put my 5 year old dog down back in May, so not easy but it's what was best for him.
It never really gets easier, but I promise the hurt goes away little by little  
<3
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I'm due September 5th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Washington
posted 31st Jan
Aww, poor kitten   I'm so sorry, it hurts to have to put down an animal.  
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Carroll, Iowa
posted 31st Jan
That's so sad, I am sorry
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I have 1 child & live in Minnesota
posted 31st Jan
I've heard of a lot of pets exhibiting normal behavior right before they pass or take a turn for the worse...

I'm so sorry this is happening to you, OP... but I think it sounds like it's time. Try to make him as comfy as possible, give him some snuggles, and tell him that it's all going to be ok... my good thoughts are with you.  
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I have 1 child & live in Tonawanda, New York
posted 31st Jan
I'm sorry. It's so hard having to let go of your pet and make the choice to not let them suffer any more, but you're doing the right thing. <3
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I have 2 kids & live in Alaska
posted 31st Jan
Im sorry sweetie   Sometimes there are no explaintions [sp] on why its happening.
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posted 31st Jan
im sorry hun...

we just had to do this to my puppy a few months ago.. he had a stroke and was becoming violent and was suffering and just not himself so we had to put him down.. it was hard but knowing hes no longer hurting made it just a little easier. i was also able to pet him and hold his head (he was a huge 8 yr old rotty) so i was able to say good bye as they gave him the shot.. it was very peaceful.

they gave him something to sleep and once he was asleep they came back in to give him the med. it didnt hurt him at all. he just looked like he was asleep the whole time.
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I have 1 child & live in Santa Maria, California
posted 31st Jan
<3 My deepest sympathy
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I'm due August 20th (a girl), have 1 child & live in District of Columbia
posted 31st Jan
I'm sorry =( I know its no consolation but a lot of times when they get crystals and blocked up like that there's just not much you can do. My mom spent thousands trying to save her cat, they "re-routed" his plumbing and everything and we still had to put him down.
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I have 2 kids & live in Scituate, Rhode Island
posted 31st Jan
Aw <3 Im so sorry that you have to go through that. At least he wont suffer anymore   Youre very brave.
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I have 2 kids & live in Slaughter, Louisiana
posted 31st Jan
I am sorry <3 You are very strong & brave to do this. You are doing the right thing, I know it is hard but just remember he won't be suffering anymore.
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 31st Jan
im sorry, just grieve,it will help you to cry!!! you have kids i see so try to keep yourself occupied
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Weirton, West Virginia
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