Coping with miscarriage

Lost my baby this weekend after 11 weeks, Friday would of been the first ultrasound, Think postpartum has hit me again after this unexpected ordeal i find myself questioning if i could of done something different? idk, but im thank i have a 4 year old son and that we can try again thats whats keeping my head above water, but its still very hard find myself crying every night...just think i need a little support ...if any of you moms even had a lost how did you cope? seems so unreachable

I'm sorry for your loss. Only time can heal the pain. Give it some time. It's still very fresh and new.

I'm so sorry for your loss.   My first one I had just found out about right before I lost it. It was hard, but not nearly as hard as my second that I lost at 12 weeks due to my own stupidity. I had found out I was pregnant at 6 weeks and was so happy. I cried alot when I lost them and I was depressed and angry and I went through all sorts of emotions. Time made it easier to deal with. Its not a bad thing to cry, sometimes you just need to let it out. There's no time limit to grieving. Maybe find something to take up that time when you start to feel sad to help? And again, I'm so sorry for your loss.

yes it is hard soon as i think i can deal with it i fool myself and cry, i think in time i will deal with it, maybe counseling will help the more i talk about it the more i can deal