Quoting Lumpy space princess:" I see that but i don't get why, they said no court date was needed My question is did he request it? or did they request it because he still has not paid?"
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" "pending service of NCP" sounds like he hasn't been served papers yet... if you haven't received notice of a court date, by say... mid-March, I would just call and ask."
Quoting Lumpy space princess:" I asked them 2 days ago if he has received papers yet for payment and they said yes, so he knows he needs to pay now. I guess i will call them tomorrow and ask."
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" He more than likely requested his day in court then. He has every right to... he may try to get his support reduced or something like that."
Quoting nz mum of 2:" might be that if he doesnt pay by certain date then it will go to court."
Quoting Lumpy space princess:" God....he does all he can to try to not care for his daughter i swear, in the mean time doesn't he still have to pay?"
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" It will just keep adding up and they'll end up garnishing his wages, provided he has a job..."
Quoting Lumpy space princess:" So he is still required to pay? what do i do if he never pays? he told me once that if i ever file ... [snip!] ... than give me any money...and yeah he has a job i think..unless he lost it because knowing him he is on the run trying to hide."
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" Wow... let him rot in jail then. My dad job-hopped and worked under the table and my mom hardly got ... [snip!] ... pay, he doesn't pay... you'll have to make ends meet another way. Sucks, but a lot of deadbeat dads beat the system somehow."