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Yesterday SO and I got into an arguement because of pictures I have on a private album in my fb since 2007, they're from college. He told me to delete them and I told him no that they were my memories from college and that no one could see them anyway. It was of me and an old roommate (guy) drunk.

Anyway, we blew up at each other said a lot of hurtful things and he took off. Along with my iphone. I haven't heard from him since. I tried calling his BIL and I could hear people in the background but he told me no one was home and he had no idea where SO was. I know he's lying. I have tried every way to get ahold of SO but he took off last night somewhere walking.

I'm about 10 weeks pregnant with his child and I just feel so sad over the whole thing? Am I in the wrong for the pictures? I feel like he's being immature telling me to delete them? I also don't understand why he's so mad and he took my phone yet wont give it back or answer or whatever. WWYD?

You're pregnant with his baby and you're refusing to take drunken pictures of you and another guy down from facebook?

I'd be pissed if it were my SO & he refused to take drunken pictures of him and another girl down.

Running off isn't the answer, but I can see why he was so upset.

How would you feel if he had pictures of him and another woman drunk that he refused to delete?

Yes, you're wrong.

Quoting Red Bottom:" You're pregnant with his baby and you're refusing to take drunken pictures of you and another guy down ... [snip!] ... to take drunken pictures of him and another girl down. Running off isn't the answer, but I can see why he was so upset."

They were from 2007 and they're in a private album.

I would be upset if he had recent pictures like that and I would delete the same, but these are hella old.

Maybe I'm the odd one out then, I don't feel like you're in the wrong. They're your pictures. Unless you were in love w/ this guy or he was an ex, or they were inappropriate, I don't really see what the huge deal is. The way he is reacting is beyond uncalled for. He just disappears, & w/ your phone? Ummmm, smurf that.

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" Maybe I'm the odd one out then, I don't feel like you're in the wrong. They're your pictures. Unless ... [snip!] ... the huge deal is. The way he is reacting is beyond uncalled for. He just disappears, & w/ your phone? Ummmm, smurf that."</blockquote>


I'm going to agree with all of this.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" Maybe I'm the odd one out then, I don't feel like you're in the wrong. They're your pictures. Unless ... [snip!] ... the huge deal is. The way he is reacting is beyond uncalled for. He just disappears, & w/ your phone? Ummmm, smurf that."

That's what I'm saying. We live together too, but with his sister & BIL so I am staying at my moms since last night, I even went to get some clothes from the house and he wasn't home his sister didn't know where he went. I just find it odd and hurtful. If he doesn't want to be with me anymore, say so - so then I can get all my smurf out and figure out what to do next.

I don't see why he's suddenly freaking out about them. They're over 5 years old and no one can see them.

Quoting Mama Wolf.:" That's what I'm saying. We live together too, but with his sister & BIL so I am staying at my moms ... [snip!] ... hurtful. If he doesn't want to be with me anymore, say so - so then I can get all my smurf out and figure out what to do next."

So the pics didn't fit any of the descriptions I said?

He sounds really insecure... & kind of guilty of something himself maybe  

I don't think you're wrong. SO's got a bunch of pictures of him and his EX but it doesn't bother me. They're his memories from high school. I threw out the ones of them kissing lol but I mean, they're just pictures.

Quoting Mama Wolf.:" They were from 2007 and they're in a private album. I would be upset if he had recent pictures like that and I would delete the same, but these are hella old."

And? If they're private why do you insist on keeping them on facebook?

You're about to be a mother and you're in a relationship, why do you feel the need to keep drunken pictures of you with other guys? I can't imagine ever feeling the need.

If anything, you could save them to your computer if they're THAT important to you.

Quoting BC Mama:" I don't think you're wrong. SO's got a bunch of pictures of him and is EX but it doesn't bother me. They're ... [snip!] ... bother me. They're his memories from high school. I threw out the ones of them kissing lol but I mean, they're just pictures. "

bahahha.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" Maybe I'm the odd one out then, I don't feel like you're in the wrong. They're your pictures. Unless ... [snip!] ... the huge deal is. The way he is reacting is beyond uncalled for. He just disappears, & w/ your phone? Ummmm, smurf that."

yeah and with my phone knowing I need it in case a doctor calls, or my BD for my first born calls to drop him off (which he just honked this morning). It's difficult and frustrating.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" So the pics didn't fit any of the descriptions I said? He sounds really insecure... & kind of guilty of something himself maybe  "

Im on my knees posing and my old roomate is above me with his tounge out we're both drunk like "rockstars"? idk, it's hella old and to me means nothing more then a funny memory. but SO said it looks like I'm trying to suck his dick.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" bahahha."

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