re: Vent/do not quote

I would have compromised by saying that I'd take them down, but only to save them to my EHD.

DH has pictures of him and his HS sweetheart. They're not on his FB, but they're in our closet in a photo box. Most of photos are of them hugging, kissing, being affectionate. I don't care, his life didn't start the day he met me.

The thing is he would most likely have demanded she delete them all together, I don't think the problem is that they're on facebook but that they exist at all. There is no way he would let her keep them on a computer or hard drive.

So I still haven't heard from him - 48 hours later, and he still has my phone. Went again to the house yesterday and he had taken off in his truck so he easily could have came by.

Quoting Mama Wolf.:" So I still haven't heard from him - 48 hours later, and he still has my phone. Went again to the house yesterday and he had taken off in his truck so he easily could have came by."

i think id be at that point now where i would take it as a sign and pack up my stuff.
his behavior is incredibly immature. running off like an angry teen with your phone. i mean i get sometimes you do stupid things in the heat of the moment. but two days?  

Quoting Fusselinchen -3:" i think id be at that point now where i would take it as a sign and pack up my stuff. his behavior ... [snip!] ... off like an angry teen with your phone. i mean i get sometimes you do stupid things in the heat of the moment. but two days?  "

Exactly. I told his sister when I went there that I'm going to go today and get my stuff so to have him call me but he never called. So, the time has come to just go pack up and move on. If he can't even talk to me then what the hell is the point? and to have my phone for that long without giving it back? I'm already going to buy a new one Sunday. He can keep the damn phone now.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Wolf.:</b>" Exactly. I told his sister when I went there that I'm going to go today and get my stuff so to have ... [snip!] ... have my phone for that long without giving it back? I'm already going to buy a new one Sunday. He can keep the damn phone now."</blockquote>




I'm sorry   is it in your name (the phone) or his?

Quoting Red Bottom:" You're pregnant with his baby and you're refusing to take drunken pictures of you and another guy down ... [snip!] ... to take drunken pictures of him and another girl down. Running off isn't the answer, but I can see why he was so upset."

 

Quoting £egendary £ex:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Wolf.:</b>" Exactly. I told his sister when I went there ... [snip!] ... a new one Sunday. He can keep the damn phone now."</blockquote> I'm sorry   is it in your name (the phone) or his?"

Mine. He finally gave it back yesterday, when I went to pick up all my stuff.

Quoting Mother Wolf:" Mine. He finally gave it back yesterday, when I went to pick up all my stuff."

so you got to talk to him in person?

Quoting £egendary £ex:" so you got to talk to him in person?"

Yep.

Quoting Mother Wolf:" Yep."

well I hope everything went okay!

Quoting £egendary £ex:" well I hope everything went okay!"

Thanks.

TBH - I feel heartbroken, we're not even together anymore. He says he wants to be there for me and the baby and that he loves me but he let me pack my things and go, so should I trust his words after his actions? After I had to search him down for 3 days and I luckily caught him yesterday when he was still in the shower after work but he was saying he had to go somewhere even then. He was pissed off still. He ended up staying and talking but He didn't fight to keep me. He said that what happened that day and the things we said just made him feel so hurt he doesn't have it in him to fight anymore. SO IDK.

Quoting Mother Wolf:" Thanks. TBH - I feel heartbroken, we're not even together anymore. He says he wants to be there for ... [snip!] ... what happened that day and the things we said just made him feel so hurt he doesn't have it in him to fight anymore. SO IDK."

maybe it's for the best... idk he seems really shady to me   I'm sorry you're heartbroken though  

Quoting £egendary £ex:" maybe it's for the best... idk he seems really shady to me   I'm sorry you're heartbroken though  "

Yeah, it'll be fine. Thanks.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" Maybe I'm the odd one out then, I don't feel like you're in the wrong. They're your pictures. Unless ... [snip!] ... the huge deal is. The way he is reacting is beyond uncalled for. He just disappears, & w/ your phone? Ummmm, smurf that."

This. I have pics of me and my ex's up. Tony has pics of his ex's up. Smurf, I have pics on my fb I took of him and his ex's but I loved him in it so I took the pic. It's the past. If its like of him kissing or whatever Id be ticked but whatever, I dont think pics are a big deal.

But disappearing with your phone makes him wrong. Thats not okay. But freaking out about pics of the past.... eh whatever.