re: Vent/do not quote

Quoting £egendary £ex:" And who's to say if his insecurities cause him to keep asking more things of her? Even asking her to ... [snip!] ... her? Even asking her to remove photos of her BD & LO together? Ummm... I don't cater to that kind of bullsmurf personally. "

LOL yeah, don't consider and be sensitive to his insecurities, because then he may be open about more. Smurf respect, right?

Quoting Red Bottom:" LOL way to put a dramatic spin on it. "delete her memories" Fb is ruining people. "

Fb really can ruin peoples and their lives.

Quoting Red Bottom:" LOL way to put a dramatic spin on it. "delete her memories" Fb is ruining people. "

Smurf, I wouldn't remember half of my adult life if I didn't have the photos.

And what makes you say that the OP is insecure? She sounds pretty normal to me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" LOL yeah, don't consider and be sensitive to his insecurities, because then he may be open about more. Smurf respect, right? "</blockquote>

Did you read where she said this isn't the first time he's pulled this? Before it was him wanting her to delete picks of her LO with LO's father   obviously he wasn't respectful with that initial request.

Quoting Stfu Shirley:" Smurf, I wouldn't remember half of my adult life if I didn't have the photos. And what makes you say that the OP is insecure? She sounds pretty normal to me."

That's how it is for me, I have SOOOO many pictures. I would understand if they were like my profile picture or visible for everyone to see but it's just like my parents closet full of albums. My mom even has one of her and her ex LOL maybe I just think differently.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" yes, photos are a good way to keep memories. she already said why they are on FB & not elsewhere... not a hard concept to understand."

download them to her computer, and remove them from facebook.

simple fix, everyone is happy.

pride is what the real issue is here.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" Maybe I'm the odd one out then, I don't feel like you're in the wrong. They're your pictures. Unless ... [snip!] ... the huge deal is. The way he is reacting is beyond uncalled for. He just disappears, & w/ your phone? Ummmm, smurf that."

Pretty much this.

An online album might be the only way for her to keep them as memories. If she moved them to something like Photobucket, he'd just get pissed about that.  

Quoting Red Bottom:"Smurf respect, right? "

And what part of him taking her phone and running away with it is respectful?
Or what part of telling her what to do is respectful, for that matter?

Quoting Stfu Shirley:" And what part of him taking her phone and running away with it is respectful? Or what part of telling her what to do is respectful, for that matter?"

exactly...

if it's that much of an issue for him, then they should break up. he shouldn't run off MIA w/ her cell phone & act like a little bitch.

Quoting SAFFY™:" Pretty much this. An online album might be the only way for her to keep them as memories. If she moved them to something like Photobucket, he'd just get pissed about that.  "

It pretty much is my only way, that's why they're private. I don't have them for everyone to see. I have them stored in an album on fb. Along with many other pictures.

Quoting Red Bottom:" download them to her computer, and remove them from facebook. simple fix, everyone is happy. pride is what the real issue is here. "

That doesn't solve anything.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" exactly... if it's that much of an issue for him, then they should break up. he shouldn't run off MIA w/ her cell phone & act like a little bitch."

I said mean things and so did he which makes it worse. Now I have no way of getting ahold of him? And I have my LO I'm not going to be fighting in front of him so I chose to stay at my moms or else I'd be waiting for his ass to come home at our place.

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" exactly... if it's that much of an issue for him, then they should break up. he shouldn't run off MIA w/ her cell phone & act like a little bitch."</blockquote>

He needs to man up, there is going to be way bigger issues & things come up for them to discuss. I'd hate to see how he handles future stuff considering how he's handling some old pictures.

I have old pictures from my past. However, they aren't online at all. They are packed away. I can see why he would be upset BUT, there was no need to have an ugly immature fight about it. There was a better avenue to that. Rather than keeping them in an album period "private" or not (assuming you kept them online so you could read the comments), I would have moved them somewhere else.

He was being a tad childish. Not going to debate that. He should have given back the phone and not behaved like such a jerk.

People need to remember that once you throw those ugly words out there, you can't take them back!!!

Quoting Mama Wolf.:" It pretty much is my only way, that's why they're private. I don't have them for everyone to see. I have them stored in an album on fb. Along with many other pictures."

I really hate people who think they should have control over a personal Facebook page.
It's my page and I'll do what I want on it. If I want to post pictures of fluffy kittens, I will. If I want to post pictures of me half naked and looking like a cheap whore, I will.

If you don't like it, don't look. Just stay off and away from my page. Just ignore it. And a private album? Please. Yes, he's being insecure but his insecurities don't mean that you have to accommodate them.

This is basically the same smurf as women telling their husbands or boyfriends that they can't watch porn.