re: Vent/do not quote

Quoting ✰ Mrs. B ✰:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Wolf.:</b>" He has his own phone. He took mine because ... [snip!] ... if he also took it for other reasons...like he might have suspected something was up when you asked for him to give it to you?"

He's gone thru my phone before but I don't care, I have nothing to hide. LOL

Quoting £egendary £ex:" It isn't stupid at all. He's obviously insecure as smurf, & trying to control her smurf. "

People get insecure. In a relationship you cater to insecurities when they're not outrageous.

He's asking her to delete pictures, not get a tattoo removed.

Quoting Red Bottom:" People get insecure. In a relationship you cater to insecurities when they're not outrageous. He's asking her to delete pictures, not get a tattoo removed."

I understand that and if it was handled different then okay but really? it makes him that mad where he's been un reachable for over 24 hours?

Quoting Red Bottom:" People get insecure. In a relationship you cater to insecurities when they're not outrageous. He's asking her to delete pictures, not get a tattoo removed."

Seems outrageous to me, for him to demand that she delete her memories and then storm off like a little bitch with her phone

Quoting Red Bottom:" People get insecure. In a relationship you cater to insecurities when they're not outrageous. He's asking her to delete pictures, not get a tattoo removed."

And who's to say if his insecurities cause him to keep asking more things of her? Even asking her to remove photos of her BD & LO together? Ummm... I don't cater to that kind of bullsmurf personally.

Quoting Mama Wolf.:" I understand that and if it was handled different then okay but really? it makes him that mad where he's been un reachable for over 24 hours?"

it obviously does, and it doesn't like he was vague about letting you know how uncomfortable the photos made him, and you continued to not care about his insecurities. And now you don't like how insecure he's making you, and you're expecting him to care.

I personally don't think you're wrong, but even if you WERE, him leaving and taking your phone with him is uncalled for, IMO.

Is your facebook signed in on your phone -- if it is, do you think he would go in and delete the pictures himself?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Wolf.:</b>" Yeah, he's 5 years younger then me. I feel how you feel and that's how it was with my first BD. We ... [snip!] ... I'd never ask him to do that if it was reverse. the only public to friends album I have has all current pics of me and him. -_-"</blockquote>


Yeah, it sounds like this isn't a new issue then & since he didn't "win" with the BD pics, he's trying to get back or whatever you want to call it with this, just to even things out or whatever. He needs to grow up. I wouldn't deal with that crap. Personally, if I had a SO who had been pulling this crap & then took off with my phone while I was pregnant, I'd be done, I don't put up with crap like that; no reason to. And someone said they think you picked these pics over your SO or whatever & it's stupid to argue over...well, I guess he picked his insecurities to pick a fight over & apparently thats more important to him than the safety of his child with you when he took off with your phone? What if you had an emergency?

Quoting Red Bottom:" it obviously does, and it doesn't like he was vague about letting you know how uncomfortable the photos ... [snip!] ... to not care about his insecurities. And now you don't like how insecure he's making you, and you're expecting him to care. "

oh my god  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Wolf.:</b>" He's gone thru my phone before but I don't care, I have nothing to hide. LOL"</blockquote>

Oh, I'm not saying you do...he seems to maybe think you do is all.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Wolf.:</b>" I understand that and if it was handled different then okay but really? it makes him that mad where he's been un reachable for over 24 hours?"</blockquote>

& took off with your phone to boot!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" it obviously does, and it doesn't like he was vague about letting you know how uncomfortable the photos ... [snip!] ... to not care about his insecurities. And now you don't like how insecure he's making you, and you're expecting him to care. "</blockquote>

LMAO, obviously she's not insecure. She already stated if he wants to end it she's cool with it & just wants him to let her know so she can get her stuff from where they're living & start getting things figured out from here  

Quoting Stfu Shirley:" Seems outrageous to me, for him to demand that she delete her memories and then storm off like a little bitch with her phone"

LOL way to put a dramatic spin on it.

"delete her memories"

Fb is ruining people.

Quoting ✰ Mrs. B ✰:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Wolf.:</b>" He's gone thru my phone before but I don't ... [snip!] ... don't care, I have nothing to hide. LOL"</blockquote> Oh, I'm not saying you do...he seems to maybe think you do is all."

Yeah but he was using my wi-fi we we got into it on my iphone and I was on my laptop... he was signed into his fb so part of me thinks he was hiding something and couldn't sign out fast enough so he took the phone? I've checked his messages before and he had nothing that threatened me. We've always had a great relationship so there wouldn't be any reason to cheat, great sex life great everything. Even his sister told him to give it back to me but he told her nah. So IDK?

Quoting Red Bottom:" LOL way to put a dramatic spin on it. "delete her memories" Fb is ruining people. "

yes, photos are a good way to keep memories. she already said why they are on FB & not elsewhere... not a hard concept to understand.