re: Vent/do not quote

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" So the pics didn't fit any of the descriptions I said? He sounds really insecure... & kind of guilty of something himself maybe  "</blockquote>

This. And unless he doesn't have his own phone, why the hell did he take off with your's? Seems like either a control tactic perhaps, or maybe he's snooping on your phone?...again, unless he doesn't have his own, but even then, it's messed up if he didn't ask to take it& left you pregnant with no phone.

depends on the pictures. if its just some buddy and you hanging out drunk i dont see the big deal. if they are of some ex, someone you used to love, someone you had sex with or just plain inappropriate it wouldnt matter to me if they are private or not, if you were my DH id want them gone.
maybe save them to your computer or a memory stick and then delete the album if you really can not let go of them.
idk the walking off with YOUR phone is very immature, but i find the whole reasoning behind it just silly to have such a big fight over...

Quoting Red Bottom:" And? If they're private why do you insist on keeping them on facebook? You're about to be a mother ... [snip!] ... I can't imagine ever feeling the need. If anything, you could save them to your computer if they're THAT important to you. "

Um I'm already a mom for one, and my first BD didn't give AF since he knew those are college albums. And fb is more reliable to store photos then a computer that can break. It's not like that's the only picture it's in an album (one of many) of my college years along with albums that are from every year since.

Quoting BC Mama:" ?"

you threw away the ones of them kissing, lol. I'd probably do the same thing

Quoting Red Bottom:" You're pregnant with his baby and you're refusing to take drunken pictures of you and another guy down ... [snip!] ... to take drunken pictures of him and another girl down. Running off isn't the answer, but I can see why he was so upset."

Lame.
There are pictures on my dh's fb that old friends posted. He's drunk with an ex in one of them and I love that photo. Maybe we're just old enough to enjoy our pasts, instead of feeling threatened by them. Plus we were friends for years before we started our relationship and we knew plenty of each other's exes. I adored the girl he dated when we were 18. She was awesome. *shrug*

OP, your SO sounds pretty immature, especially if you're the only one who can see the pictures. If they were public, I guess it would make sense to take them down, just out of respect for him if it made him feel insecure, but it sounds like he needs to grow the f up.

Quoting ✰ Mrs. B ✰:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" So the pics didn't fit any of the descriptions ... [snip!] ... unless he doesn't have his own, but even then, it's messed up if he didn't ask to take it& left you pregnant with no phone."

exactly...

idk, there's no way I would delete any photos anywhere, if I didn't want to delete them... I mean, they're mine  

Quoting £egendary £ex:" you threw away the ones of them kissing, lol. I'd probably do the same thing"

haha k thats what I thought.

Quoting ✰ Mrs. B ✰:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" So the pics didn't fit any of the descriptions ... [snip!] ... unless he doesn't have his own, but even then, it's messed up if he didn't ask to take it& left you pregnant with no phone."

He has his own phone.

He took mine because while we were arguing he was holding it and I told him give it to me and he said "NO" that he bought it (it was my birthday gift in October since my previous iphone got jacked from his house during a party in june). and I was like wtf you're going to take my gift and he took it.

Quoting Mama Wolf.:" Im on my knees posing and my old roomate is above me with his tounge out we're both drunk like "rockstars"? ... [snip!] ... idk, it's hella old and to me means nothing more then a funny memory. but SO said it looks like I'm trying to suck his dick."

oh jeez  

Quoting Mama Wolf.:" Um I'm already a mom for one, and my first BD didn't give AF since he knew those are college albums. ... [snip!] ... that's the only picture it's in an album (one of many) of my college years along with albums that are from every year since."

Well, I see you think the photos are worth more than the father of your child's feelings, so it looks like you already made your decision.

You should really pick your battles. This is a stupid one to pick. You'd want him to listen to your insecurities, you should listen to his.

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" exactly... idk, there's no way I would delete any photos anywhere, if I didn't want to delete them... I mean, they're mine   "</blockquote>

Exactly, and I would expect the same from anyone I dated in the past...it's their memories & I wouldn't want them trying to dictate mine, so why would I bother interfering with their's?

Quoting Stfu Shirley:" Lame. There are pictures on my dh's fb that old friends posted. He's drunk with an ex in one of them ... [snip!] ... to take them down, just out of respect for him if it made him feel insecure, but it sounds like he needs to grow the f up."

Yeah, he's 5 years younger then me. I feel how you feel and that's how it was with my first BD. We didn't care as long as it didn't involve our current life together. But it's a whole different story here.

SO even wanted me to delete the albums of my BD with LO. which are also private but I told him no I was saving those for N's memories and I'd never ask him to do that if it was reverse. the only public to friends album I have has all current pics of me and him. -_-

Quoting Red Bottom:" Well, I see you think the photos are worth more than the father of your child's feelings, so it looks ... [snip!] ... pick your battles. This is a stupid one to pick. You'd want him to listen to your insecurities, you should listen to his. "

It isn't stupid at all. He's obviously insecure as smurf, & trying to control her smurf.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Wolf.:</b>" He has his own phone. He took mine because while we were arguing he was holding it and I told him ... [snip!] ... iphone got jacked from his house during a party in june). and I was like wtf you're going to take my gift and he took it."</blockquote>

He's immature. And I'm wondering if he also took it for other reasons...like he might have suspected something was up when you asked for him to give it to you?

Quoting Mama Wolf.:" Yeah, he's 5 years younger then me. I feel how you feel and that's how it was with my first BD. We ... [snip!] ... I'd never ask him to do that if it was reverse. the only public to friends album I have has all current pics of me and him. -_-"

he sounds like a dick...