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Welp. I did it. :( any "pill" tips?

posted 30th Jan
I have been putting off my abortion appointment for so long.
My best friend kept my daughter, and was here for moral support, and my boyfriend drove me.

I was expecting to go in to an abortion procedure because I thought I was around 12 weeks...
I found out I was only 8 weeks and was able to take the pill.
I was kind of relieved, and feel like it's so much less of an emotional thing to go through.

I actually dont feel as sad or depressed as I thought I was going to be.
Maybe because I detached my mind from this pregnancy so much? I just feel like a bad person because I dont feel that sad... ugh this whol thing sucks.
I know tomorrow im going to have to take all 4 pills and actually pass the pregnancy.
Does anybody have any tips for me for what im going to go through tomorrow?
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Stafford, Virginia
posted 30th Jan
You're not a bad person.

Have some water near you, rest, take care of yourself. If you want someone with you, ask them to be, if not, ask to be alone and have the phone near you in case you want some support. Good luck.
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I'm due September 11th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Syracuse, New York
posted 30th Jan
You're not a bad person at all.

You should be thankful you don't feel bad, it should help make the process easier on you. Good luck. And just relax. If you need someone to talk to you can PM me.
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 30th Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" You're not a bad person. Have some water near you, rest, take care of yourself. If you want someone ... [snip!] ... someone with you, ask them to be, if not, ask to be alone and have the phone near you in case you want some support. Good luck."</blockquote>




This is kind of off topic. But you're such a sweet person. Every time I see you in a thread you're so supportive. Glad to see ladies like you exist.  
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 30th Jan
Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" You're not a bad person. Have some water near ... [snip!] ... But you're such a sweet person. Every time I see you in a thread you're so supportive. Glad to see ladies like you exist.  "

Aw, thanks love. Like everyone, I have my unkind moments... but I try. <3 So thank you.
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I'm due September 11th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Syracuse, New York
posted 30th Jan
Quoting The Doctor:" Aw, thanks love. Like everyone, I have my unkind moments... but I try. <3 So thank you."



NEVAH!  
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I'm due June 26th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Caldwell, Idaho
posted 30th Jan
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" NEVAH!  "

<3  
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I'm due September 11th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Syracuse, New York
posted 30th Jan
Quoting The Doctor:" <3  "


Or should I say Nevaeh? lol
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I'm due June 26th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Caldwell, Idaho
posted 30th Jan
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Or should I say Nevaeh? lol"


Haha... that's the funniest thing... I almost asked why you were insulting me by calling me Neveah...

LMAO. Great minds, eh?
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I'm due September 11th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Syracuse, New York
posted 30th Jan
Quoting The Doctor:" Haha... that's the funniest thing... I almost asked why you were insulting me by calling me Neveah... LMAO. Great minds, eh?"

That is a pretty atrocious insult isn't it?
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I'm due June 26th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Caldwell, Idaho
posted 30th Jan
OP... I would stock up your bed with goodies, TV, laptop, foodie stuff, throw up bucket, and a heating pad.. and towels if you are in too much pain to get up to change everything. Is someone going to be with you tomorrow? Id recomend someone watching your LO for the day..

You can PM me tomorrow if you need someone to talk to. You are NOT a horrible person. This is what you think is the right choice for you and your family. There is no wrong feeling for that <3
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posted 31st Jan
heres what to expect
once u place them in u will feel strong cramps 15-20 mins later... u will bleed a lot and maybe throw up and diarrhea each person is different i had all at once. i felt when the baby past and came out   i didnt look..the bleeding SHOULD slow down after a couple of days mines slowed down the came back and a lot blood clots that could fit into your hand. i had to go to the ER because i was bleeding too much. they prescribed me pills to stop the bleeding. and did an ultrasound i still had what they called "products" of the pregnancy still inside my uterus that's why i was bleeding so heavily. i was passing huge blood clots literally every 2 mins the whole day some days was ok the others was a whole lt i had to buy those absorption sheets for the bed take off my underwear and sleep like that because huge maxi pads were not holding the blood clots.its been a month now and the bleeding is light like a light period but im still bleeding. u might get bad cramps on and off. dont be surprised if your at work or something and all of the sudden u gush out a bunch of blood and have to go running to the bathrrom that has happened to me so many times
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Miami, Florida
posted 5th Feb
OP i know its been a few days since youve posted this but i just wanted to say I hope you're doing okay and everything went alright for you. i was in this situation 3.5 years ago. i too took the pill form at 8wks. it was the hardest thing to go through. if you ever want to talk or vent im here to listen. <3
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I'm TTC since January '13, have 1 angel baby & live in Sarasota, Florida
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