Quoting dream:" an interest in the potty knowing when they had to pee/poop the ability to "hold it" before actually going not liking to be in a dirty diaper what signs has she shown?"
She will sit on her potty and she knows to pull her pants and everything down before sitting on it (she can do that on her own). And she isn't peeing here and there all the time basically like she did when she was smaller, that was one thing her pedi told me to watch for because it meant she could control her bladder more. And she hates being in a wet/dirty diaper, if I don't notice it as soon as she pee's or poops, she will take her diaper off herself. She just hasn't actually pee'd or pooped in the potty yet. I take her to the bathroom with me almost every time though.