She may not be able to have a pet though... I never suggest people buy pets because it's a huge commitment and often leads to them ending up on the street or in the pound when they can't be cared for. Not saying that OP can't look after a pet, but it's not always a good solution...
Do you have any interests OP? Do you like to draw or paint? Ever wanted to learn to make pottery or learn a special skill? Have you considered taking a class like once a week? You could meet some interesting people there
I have dogs, cats, bearded dragon and a horse. its more in the sense of my life has turned upside down and I have lost so much. I hate venting. Im confused and upset and feel like everything is just spinning. I am just so drained. I dont have a good friend to talk to. My highlight in life is my part time job. I wanted so much and have been trying so hard. Its just not turning out how I planned. sorry end of vent