Quoting KiKi Dee:" I am in the military. My husband and I got into it and didn't talk for a while. But I will say that I ... [snip!] ... 1 time a weeks so it would not be so hard on both of us and plus I was extremely busy and the time difference was rough on us."This is really good to know. Especially from a woman. I always feel like if I were the one gone I would want to talk everyday, and that only men would be the other way. Thanks for the insight!
Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" He is probably just trying to cool off. Or he doesn't want to fight or something. I know when DH was ... [snip!] ... to contact family. I would just email him and tell him you love him and that when he is ready to talk again, you will be there."
Quoting KiKi Dee:" I am in the military. My husband and I got into it and didn't talk for a while. But I will say that I ... [snip!] ... 1 time a weeks so it would not be so hard on both of us and plus I was extremely busy and the time difference was rough on us."
Quoting iLL-Legal Alien:" This...DH and I got into a really nasty fight once and the first thing I did when he logged off ... [snip!] ... something stupid. When they're over there, they deal with things differently, and sometimes it might not make sense to you."Ugh I just want this to be over already. It wasn't like this last deployment. I hate that he has to go through all this.
Quoting lovinthem04:" Didn't really want to post about this, but it's eating away at me If you have been through a deployment, ... [snip!] ... he got offline because he was mad at you, would you think the reason he hasn't contacted you since is because he is still mad?"
Quoting EnnaBennaBanana:" My husband had a 12 month deployment in Afghanistan last year. And I know how you are feeling.. sometimes ... [snip!] ... I know sometimes mine would go for a month or so with no contact for dif reasons ... it's part of deployment. <3 *hugs*"
Quoting lovinthem04:" Thanks so much! It just bothers me cause he has been online, just not to talk to me, and the other guys ... [snip!] ... I am taking this the wrong way, and the pregnancy hormones/ end of a 12 month deployment hormones are getting to me now hahaha"
Quoting EnnaBennaBanana:" Yeah I can understand that being upsetting... I hope he gets in contact with you soon!! Him being ... [snip!] ... a super special one for him? That kept me busy someitmes when I was doing that stuff for him and got my mind off things."
Quoting lovinthem04:" His mail is cut off. He comes home really soon. So there isn't any way to send him anything "