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Quoting Chels :3:" It's not him watching his son, Of course that matters. Her constantly threatening to take him away. ... [snip!] ... calling you jaded, and then called me a big baby. You obviously don't get my point or think it's silly so leave the silly post."

Again, who said it wasn't important to me? I never said that. I said it wasn't the end of the world.   My husband was at the hospital with me. He took care of our daughter, our son and I. He just missed the birth. Big freakin' whoop.

Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" Again, who said it wasn't important to me? I never said that. I said it wasn't the end of the world. ... [snip!] ... husband was at the hospital with me. He took care of our daughter, our son and I. He just missed the birth. Big freakin' whoop."

I guess that's the part that important to me. Maybe it doesn't matter. I'll just deal with that fact then if it comes down to it. It wont matter once she's born.

Quoting Chels :3:" I guess that's the part that important to me. Maybe it doesn't matter. I'll just deal with that fact then if it comes down to it. It wont matter once she's born. "

That's what I am trying to say. As sucky as it is that he may not be here, what truly matters is that you're healthy and the baby is healthy. My labor went by very quickly which is why my husband missed it. In the moment, I really didn't care.   I was in pain and concentrating on getting through my labor. The second I popped him out was the exact second my husband walked in.

If he can't be there, don't be afraid to ask the nurse to take some photos for you or something. Maybe set up a video camera. I'm sure he's upset about the possibility of not being able to be there for you also.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chels :3:</b>" Apparently I'm a big baby for being upset. This is SO's first daughter, and my first child. My parents ... [snip!] ... drop him off. That'd take too much time. There's not even anyone else to take me to the hospital forgot to mention that part."</blockquote>




You're not a baby. Like I said, military wives just view situations differently. You get so used to things not going as planned, or going like they would normally (like having your husband holding your hand during labor). Some people think "we'll, I had to deal with it, so should YOU". They fail to realize they chose that life style (military spouse) and you did not. Therefore, you want it to work out how it normally does and have the father present when his child is born.

Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" That's what I am trying to say. As sucky as it is that he may not be here, what truly matters is that ... [snip!] ... something. Maybe set up a video camera. I'm sure he's upset about the possibility of not being able to be there for you also."

Actually he's acting like nothings the matter... We're very passive aggressive and it's sucky because we're both aware of it. Lol.

I'll do that then I guess. I always put in these rants that I may not even go today or tomorrow etc., it's the idea of it that gets me upset. These last 3 weeks, were planned out. And so far she's made it her mission in life to go against them even though they were her idea...

But my baby girl is the most important part.

Quoting Chels :3:" Actually he's acting like nothings the matter... We're very passive aggressive and it's sucky because ... [snip!] ... it her mission in life to go against them even though they were her idea... But my baby girl is the most important part. "

You should talk to him. If his ex can in fact find someone else to watch him, it would be kind of her if she did. But I don't know if she's just a bitch or something, she could be asking your SO to watch their son during this time out of spite.

And I apologize if I made you feel bad, that wasn't my intention.