Quoting Lindsay1591:" well the thing is i used to tell him we should watch porn together and it never happened then i found ... [snip!] ... he doesnt think hes doing anything wrong even though it hurts me and our sex life hasnt improved. i just dont know what to do "
well with my own experience the only thing you can do is either break up or learn to deal with it.. unless hes really honestly willing to stop doing it which in my case he wasnt then you need to just learn to let it go. people do what they want and if he really wants to watch porn hes going to do it. my SO use to do it knowking it hurt me and id cry and freak out because he would sweare and promise hed stop... but in the end he just kept doing it because he liked doing it and he didnt think it was a big deal. and really its not a big deal.. now we watch it together and its not that bad at all.. its just skanky whores smurfing its not like its chat rooms or real girls its nasty women who get payed to do smurf and it made me feel so much better when we watched it together. as long as you dont want him to do it he will just sneak it and hide it and lie and do it anyways.