porn

Do u think its ok to look at porn when in a relationship or is it a no no? whats your opinion?

DH and I watch porn together 

Everything in moderation

Quoting Love = Moco and Bubba:" DH and I watch porn together "

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Quoting Love = Moco and Bubba:" DH and I watch porn together "

Us too. But we also have no issues with doing our own thing and watching it alone. Should have made a poll.

i watch porn on my own and so dose my partner, we even watch it together. no biggy. when i cba with sex i tell him to watch a porn then he leaves me alone to my relife
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SO and I watch together and seperate.

it doesn't bother me, I have the lowest sex drive on the planet so I'd rather him help himself then bug the smurf outta be every night. I don't watch it cuz I basically have better things to do

Sure. Why not?

DH and I do not watch porn. He actually had an addiction to it really badly and we got past it.
IMO Porn is vile and disgusting but I have my own reasons for that.

I don't really watch porn cause it doesn't interest me. My husband informed me yesterday that he watches porn when he's out of town. It doesn't bother me. I'd rather him watch porn than going out and trying to make some.  

Sure. I don't mind it. SO not so much. Not that he's a prude or anything, he just can't take it seriously, porn is like comedy gold to him.

If it was causing problems, as anything can when overdone, that would be different but if it's just an occasional thing or something to indulge in on the side, far be it from me to criticize.

well the thing is i used to tell him we should watch porn together and it never happened then i found a bunch of pics he was looking at. it was excessive and to the point where our sex life was just 2-4 a month/ he knew that i wanted to make our sex life better and he said he would stop. 5 months later i found porn sites on his accounts. he doesnt think hes doing anything wrong even though it hurts me and our sex life hasnt improved. i just dont know what to do

Quoting Lindsay1591:" well the thing is i used to tell him we should watch porn together and it never happened then i found ... [snip!] ... he doesnt think hes doing anything wrong even though it hurts me and our sex life hasnt improved. i just dont know what to do "

well with my own experience the only thing you can do is either break up or learn to deal with it.. unless hes really honestly willing to stop doing it which in my case he wasnt then you need to just learn to let it go. people do what they want and if he really wants to watch porn hes going to do it. my SO use to do it knowking it hurt me and id cry and freak out because he would sweare and promise hed stop... but in the end he just kept doing it because he liked doing it and he didnt think it was a big deal. and really its not a big deal.. now we watch it together and its not that bad at all.. its just skanky whores smurfing its not like its chat rooms or real girls its nasty women who get payed to do smurf and it made me feel so much better when we watched it together. as long as you dont want him to do it he will just sneak it and hide it and lie and do it anyways.

Quoting aubrees-mommy:" well with my own experience the only thing you can do is either break up or learn to deal with it.. ... [snip!] ... we watched it together. as long as you dont want him to do it he will just sneak it and hide it and lie and do it anyways. "

it hurts a lot makes me feel like im not good enough i just dont feel the same about him and dont trust him anymore bcuz of this smurf. i used to want to watch it w him b4 i knew about this but now it seems like it would hurt more to watch it w him idk but u have good points