Quoting My boys = My life:" Wow, people can be mean.. People hated my first sons name. I love it.. I've figure you either not post ... [snip!] ... and name your kids something everyone will love. Don't be a sheep, If you love the name thats really all that matters."
Absolutely not! That is not all that matters.
Your child has to live with that name for the rest of their lives. I personally wouldn't want to go through life with a made up/stupid/misspelled name.
Aspen and Jaxon are no where near the worst names in the world.