Quoting melindapple:" maybe he didn't want to disappoint you because he was having issues cutting back? I know it's stupid, but I'm thinking he didn't lie for absolutely no reason."
This is a true statement right here. My husband did lie about petty smurf like chew when I got pregnant with the twins. I quit smoking and the deal was he quit chewing. It took him a while to do it. He would pull cash and not put it on his debit card so I didn't see the excess gas station charges and then on top of that, he wouldn't do it at home. He would do it at work and at his duty station (he was USFS FIRE and stationed 103 miles from the house). When he would come home on the weekends I could tell because his back would be broke out and he wouldn't be smart enough to wash his face or brush his teeth before walking in the door. Eventually he quit but to quit the first go was hard. We quit over 5 years ago. We both picked it back up this past summer for a brief time and quit again because it was stupid. However, even I would lie about smoking while my husband was gone because it was shameful. I am better than that and I know it.
Logan's mommy, it sounds like there are some other issues going on because everything you posted today is a rant about what others are doing and how pissed it makes you. Are you stressed about something and anytime a gnat farts it just pisses you off more than normal?