Quoting sunshine715:" It does sound like adhd bc like you I have researched it a million times but.....the thin that gets me is he doesn't always do it. He can be good so it kinda shows me he can control it somewhat."
Thats how my daughter is as well she can literally be throwing a fit on the floor in a store and the next be the sweetest thing. she is very very veyr smart but to try and get her to sit there and learn a thing YA RIGHT! she just picks up on everything to the point were we have pretended not to be talking to her and have our own "coversation" whether it be spelling her name or counting. she took my cell phone and hid and i searched for 5 DAYS and she acted like she had no idea and then on the 5th day i said okay ry where is it, im done looking i cant find it anywhere, she ran right up to my cable box, yeap she hid it right behind it. she can sing most of the pretty little liars song tell me what show it is anddd copies aria at the end idk if you watch it but its not a show she even watches she literally saw the opening song i think twice. she knows not to hit or bite or any of that she literally gets upset with herself and has cried to me for hitting me before but she just cant control it. poor kid you can literally see it in her facial expressions when theres just TOO much going on and she doesnt know what to react to. its a long road its not like you go into a drs appt and come out and there diagnosed i guess theres psychiatrists and behavioral therapists they have to work with and whatnot but its something to look into.