I think I over reacted.. *vent*

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My ex's sister told me she thinks I got pregnant just so I could stay on welfare and I used her brother.

I told her a lot of things and pointed out that if i had wanted to use him I would have married him for the military benefits. Then told her as far as I was concerned she and I did not know or exist to each other.

I'm sad, she ha been in my life for a long time but I do not let people who have hurt me back into my life.

It just showed me how little she actually knows me and I have no need for that.

I'm having hard enough time with my own guilt that once again I've faild a child in providing it with a father who will be in it's life and I have no clue how I'm going to support two children on my own.

And I miss my ex, I miss what we had in the beginning, but he's also shown me he doesn't know or understand me or how I think and often misinterprets what I say then tells me y explination of what I was saying is bullsmurf.

I dnt think you over reacted she was outta line for saying that of you miss ur ex maybe you can try working things out

I can't say I wouldn't be upset either. If someone said that to me, they'd be out of my life/contact with me for a while. They'd have to work really hard to earn my trust and respect back, especially if it's something that was so far from the truth.

the last time my ex and I broke up for good, his sister texted me saying how he was filling her head with lies about how I used his parents for a place to stay and I used her to get my dog and I used him for money. I was happy she confronted me because it made him look more like a jackass then he already was, 1) I was only living there because he never trusted me living with my parents and always thought I was with someone else when he wasn't around and manipulated me into moving in. HE was the one always out cheating. 2) She gave me the dog regardless of whether we were together or not. 3) He was a lazy ass and refused to ever get a job and always took my money every chance he got, then gave it to his friends.
His family LOVED me, hence the reason why i'm with my husband now, they were the ones that told me I could do better and needed to find someone that loved me back as much as I loved him. I'm still great friends with his sister and if I wasn't with my husband, I would still be friends with the rest of his family.

Quoting ♥JoJo my luv♥:" I dnt think you over reacted she was outta line for saying that of you miss ur ex maybe you can try working things out"

Things won't work out.
He won't talk to me in person because he thinks it helps avoid pointless arguments but he misinterprets everything I say over text or message.

For example we were talking about not making people be in the babies life and I said I didn't want to take his parents grandchild away from them and he replied with "your never going taking that child away from anyone so don't even think about talking or trying it"

It just makes me mad and not want to cooperate with him because I was talking about their feelings.

I admit I do have a weird way of talking sometimes but he's the only person I know who doesn't get what I mean when I say things. It causes him to tell me I don't make sense or I am lieing or what I think is wrong.

:/

Quoting Lin Brown:" the last time my ex and I broke up for good, his sister texted me saying how he was filling her head ... [snip!] ... I'm still great friends with his sister and if I wasn't with my husband, I would still be friends with the rest of his family."

He told me he hasn't talked to anyone about why we broke up and he doesn't want to get involved with anything between her and I. He also got really mad when he found out I had talked to people about why we broke up. So I don't think he said anything but who knows.

I thought I was close with his family, I have known them for 8 years and I spent a good portion of that time over at their house hanging out with his sister.
I haven't heard from his parents at all though so I'm not even going to bother to try with his family anymore.

I did promise I would keep him updated and send him pics and that if he is able to get back here when I go into labor he is going to be in the hospital with me. He leaves for bootcamp in feb then is stationed in Virginia I think it is, that's why he wouldn't be here.

Honestly it doesn't matter to me if he is there or not though.

Oh no.   I didnt know you two broke up. Im sorry! Definitely let me know when you find out what you are having. If its a girl I will have a ton I can mail to you.I know I dont know you in real life but we have some mutuial friends up there in ramona, and i feel like i know you!