DAMMIT!

first i want to start by saying PROPS to the single moms who do it all by themselves.

MY husband is a cop-out POS(sometimes) he works at taco bell! he says that he shouldnt have to do what i do. IM SO SICK OF BEING A METAHPORICAL SINGLE MOM! im married to my baby's father so why isnt he helping out besides the three hundred dollars every two weeks. except i dont see that money, niether does his daughter. we live with his parents, so we have no bills. and all that money goes where!!!! i have to ask his mom to get us stuff (and it makes me feel like SCUM) thats why im going to college to get a degree. im so beyond pissed off right now. i hear this child cry, days on end, and im up with her ALL NIGHT EVERY NIGHT with no smurfing help with lazy ass. he complains that he never sleeps.

we never get to spend time together therefore i stay up until he gets home from work then we stay up for a couple hours. well we talked last night about us both going to DD's doc appt. well after going to bed at 4am, i was up all night with no help AT ALL, i had to get up at nine and GO BY MYSELF to her doc appt(like always) well i get home and its like 1.30pm and he is still asleep, so i let him sleep while DD is passed out in her carseat...well 3:30 rolls around and this smurfer is still asleep. and he has today and tomorrow off, and still wont help me. HOW DO I GET HIM TO HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

end really vulgar rant, sorry.

wow, i would not deal with that.

What a bum. My Fiancee has a serious back and neck injury and still finds a way to help with the kids

divorce?

Smack him in the nuts and tell him to help you out!!! lol
i wouldnt deal with that my SO tried that smurf while working at wal-mart... we were also living with his parents but i talked to him and after getting angry multiple times and yelling and argueing and cutting him off from any sexual contact...he smartened up....now he has a great job and helps out when asked even gets day off when i have like 5 appointment in one day cause he knows that smurf frustrates me

Ugh,I hate men like that.

Just talk to him?But honestly I wouldn't put up with that mess at all!

he provides for us, in a way. but at the same time I NEED PHYSICAL HELP. ya know. sorry im still kinda pissed.

im a single mom of 2 under the age of 2 and im constantly awake with my almost 5 month old all during the night so i know how you feel, but thats complete bs. If it was me i would wake your husband up hand him the baby and go out somewhere or even just to take a walk. your husband needs to realize you didnt make that baby on your own and you shouldnt have to do everything for her on your own.

i do just hand him the baby and walk away sometimes, then he flips out on me saying that i just up and leave every chance i get and just leave him there to do it without help. im like honey, i dont sit around and wait for someone to help me, if i did me and this baby would die. he doesnt get my point and it really pisses me off. again this EARLY MORNING like 5 or 6 DD wakes up and im still tired from 3 hours of sleep the night before and he offers to make a bottle and i say yes, then he was like ill watch the baby and YOU make the bottle, i was like hahaha no buddy you already offered to make it. then he gets all pissy with me. I JUST DONT GET IT AT ALL!

but on another note, i think he knows i was EXTREMELY upset because he put the laundry away and FINALLY took the trash out. so props for that, now lets see how long this "helping hand" lasts...i give it two days.