re: strange?

Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:" OP it sounds to me you have grounds to do some snooping."

I would do snooping...if I had anything to snoop. :/ He doesn't have a facebook or a phone.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kaibutsu:</b>" Ugh I dunno..I don't want to..I will probably bring it up again..I am wondering if he is going to discard ... [snip!] ... "be" with him as mean as it sounds, his work uniform is covered in 10 layers of grease and he always stinks...I don't know.."</blockquote>




Well you're with him...so obviously people find hi. Attractive.

Quoting Kaibutsu:" I would do snooping...if I had anything to snoop. :/ He doesn't have a facebook or a phone.  "

Meh, I'm not a big fan of snooping. I think you should just ask him why on earth he'd think that was one of yours if it was just laying on the ground, and trust your gut feeling...perhaps keep your eyes open for a while.

Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kaibutsu:</b>" Ugh I dunno..I don't want to..I will probably ... [snip!] ... and he always stinks...I don't know.."</blockquote> Well you're with him...so obviously people find hi. Attractive."

I am with him..but his stinch is enough for ME to not even want to sleep with him most of the time..so I don't feel like a coworker would either...plus he literally takes like an hour + to have sex..he would have been late I feel. Plus I can see all of his clock out tickets, he leaves them on our entertainment stand.

Quoting Kaibutsu:" I would do snooping...if I had anything to snoop. :/ He doesn't have a facebook or a phone.  "

Tell him you want to know where the shirt came from and you're not going to stop asking until he tells you.

Quoting sassy chef:" Meh, I'm not a big fan of snooping. I think you should just ask him why on earth he'd think that was ... [snip!] ... was one of yours if it was just laying on the ground, and trust your gut feeling...perhaps keep your eyes open for a while. "

He gets off of work when its really dark outside so that would be his excuse for that. He could be telling the truth, but its not like he'd let me know if he was lying to me..he gets defensive too easily, I've have to think of some way to bring it back up. Because he is an extremely defensive person.

Quoting bbbt:" Tell him you want to know where the shirt came from and you're not going to stop asking until he tells you. "

What if he just tells me his current story?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kaibutsu:</b>" I'm kind of worried to go with my gut because there have been times I've worried he was cheating with no real reason, just that I felt I wasn't enough for him."</blockquote>




Did you have a reason & he convinced you that it was your own insecurities?

Quoting Kaibutsu:" He gets off of work when its really dark outside so that would be his excuse for that. He could be telling ... [snip!] ... gets defensive too easily, I've have to think of some way to bring it back up. Because he is an extremely defensive person."

Do you think he's cheating?

We live in an apartment complex and DH has picked up some kid's toys that he thought were ours and left them on our porch (and then our neighbor thought we had attempted to steal them.. ) so I mean, that I can kind of understand, I suppose.

Quoting Kaibutsu:" What if he just tells me his current story?"

You tell him you don't believe him. Women's shirts don't just magically appear in cars.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kaibutsu:</b>" I'm kind of worried to go with my gut because ... [snip!] ... I wasn't enough for him."</blockquote> Did you have a reason & he convinced you that it was your own insecurities?"

I never told him my thoughts because there was no real reason for me to feel that way..just that we didn't ever have sex and he had a high sex drive so I felt he may start cheating since we rarely had sex.

Quoting sassy chef:" Do you think he's cheating? We live in an apartment complex and DH has picked up some kid's toys that ... [snip!] ... porch (and then our neighbor thought we had attempted to steal them.. ) so I mean, that I can kind of understand, I suppose. "

Honestly not really, I just thought it was really shady and wanted to get other ladies opinions..I'm going to be watching though, and seeing what he does with that shirt.

Good luck, I hope it's nothing!

Quoting Red Bottom:" Him throwing his jacket over it is not the weird part. There being an unexplained woman's shirt in his car, is."

  

Good luck and hang in there!! Trust your gut, but don't break up over it or anything lol. Unless you find out worse things and can't work through them. Just listen to your gut and if you feel you aren't getting the whole truth be cautious and extra aware.