Having sex for the first time?!

I tore in three places and I still feel sore down there but only when I sit on the toilet, weird right?? I'm just wondering how it felt for you to have sex again?? Did it hurt? Did you feel loose?! Sorry I'm honestly just really nervous and need input lol.

I was nervous as hell the first time. It hurt a little bit but once we got into it I was fine. I was the same as I'd always been, according to him, feels that way to me as well. My cervix just feels different. I waited the full six weeks coz I was too chicken to try earlier lol

I had a c-section, so I don't know if it feels any different for a vaginal, but it was a little awkward. The sex was good (lol) but we did have to take it slow just to be sure I was ready and it didn't hurt. Take you time with it, go slow! an make sure you tell your SO to take it easy the first time you have sex again!   good luck!

I had an episiotomy. Had sex at 2 months PP. It felt amazing!!! Lol. No pain. Felt tight and back to normal. SO loved it too  

For me it hurt if he went to far in. So I told him to go nice a slow. I also had a rip but it was not bad enough for stitches we waited for 5 weeks to do anything but it rip came back open.

I never tore and it still hurt the first few times we had sex after I gave birth. And just so you know, if you're Breastfeeding you can be really dry down there so lube is a good idea.

I had an episiotomy and tore both labias
We had sex 2 weeks pp (was banned from sex the last 4 weeks of pregnancy)
It felt extremely tight.. we had to go SO slow.. it felt like I was a virgin at the begining for.. I want to say first four times.. complete guess since it was almost 3 years ago

definitely didn't feel loose. felt tighter if possible. and I waited longer than the 6 weeks. with my first, i waited until after 8 weeks, and we had to do it in the shower.

Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" I had a c-section, so I don't know if it feels any different for a vaginal, but it was a little awkward. ... [snip!] ... Take you time with it, go slow! an make sure you tell your SO to take it easy the first time you have sex again!   good luck!"

 

I had an episiotomy and had sex 2.5 wks pp and it felt amazing! Lol
It was a little tight feeling but I was wet enough for it to not matter sorry tmi but I was super horny.

I tore and I felt like I was going to split in 2 the first time after. BD said everything felt the same, but tighter.

It wasn't enjoyable for me for awhile.

Waited 6w with DS1 and was so tight that sex hurt for weeks.

Waited 5w with DS2 (w/ doc approval) and it was a little tender and tight at first, but otherwise good.

I'm almost 7 weeks pp & it's a little sore. I had an episiotomy. Had sex 5 weeks pp while I was a little buzzed up. It wasn't bad but I dried up quick due to the condom lol. I hate them things   we've had sex 3 or 4 times but haven't had it all the way in deep (cept the first time). The condoms kill me but there's no friggin way I'm getting knocked up this soon lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:</b>" I had a c-section, so I don't know if it feels any different for a vaginal, but it was a little awkward. ... [snip!] ... Take you time with it, go slow! an make sure you tell your SO to take it easy the first time you have sex again!   good luck!"</blockquote>




Yeah it's different. You didn't have a baby come out of your vagina and tear it up.

I had a c-section and had sex after mt 6 weeks check and I thought I was gonna cry!...I had to make DH stop it hurt so bad! My LO is 5 months now and it still hurts for a few seconds.