re: Having sex for the first time?!

Wow how does a vagina get tighter after birth??

<blockquote><b>Quoting !*MySonIsMyWorld*!:</b>" Wow how does a vagina get tighter after birth??"</blockquote>

No idea, but it does!

I had a 10lber and everyone joked about a hotdog in the hallway stuff...but the first time DH (whim I'd been with 7 years!) couldn't even get it in at all.

<blockquote><b>Quoting P Pickle Pants:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting !*MySonIsMyWorld*!:</b>" Wow how does a vagina get tighter after ... [snip!] ... joked about a hotdog in the hallway stuff...but the first time DH (whim I'd been with 7 years!) couldn't even get it in at all."</blockquote>




Omg that insane my son was 9 pounds 8 oz. kind of hope that's the same for me =D

<blockquote><b>Quoting !*MySonIsMyWorld*!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting P Pickle Pants:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting !*MySonIsMyWorld*!:</b>" ... [snip!] ... even get it in at all."</blockquote> Omg that insane my son was 9 pounds 8 oz. kind of hope that's the same for me =D"</blockquote>




You don't want what happened to me. I screamed the first time he tried to go in and I had my 10lb son pain med free...

We had to use lots and lots of lube and foreplay and try again.

<blockquote><b>Quoting P Pickle Pants:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting !*MySonIsMyWorld*!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... time he tried to go in and I had my 10lb son pain med free... We had to use lots and lots of lube and foreplay and try again."</blockquote>




Omg your superwoman doing that natural. I tried for 8 hours and I couldn't do it anymore lol. But no that doesn't sound fun lol.

Quoting P Pickle Pants:" <blockquote><b>Quoting !*MySonIsMyWorld*!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... time he tried to go in and I had my 10lb son pain med free... We had to use lots and lots of lube and foreplay and try again."

yeah I can deliver babies, no problem. but the second I feel any pain during sex it's time to stop lol. maybe because there's no life on the line   and yeah, lube and foreplay is a must...

<blockquote><b>Quoting !*MySonIsMyWorld*!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting P Pickle Pants:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting !*MySonIsMyWorld*!:</b>" ... [snip!] ... your superwoman doing that natural. I tried for 8 hours and I couldn't do it anymore lol. But no that doesn't sound fun lol."</blockquote>



I'm on Pendleton too, btw. I live right behind the base hospital  

And I had 36hrs of labor. I can't wait to do it again, I just want to make it to TERM this time. My 2nd was born at 23 weeks. I've been on pelvic rest since my BFP. We'll see how long i can wait for sex after this one. I'm dying for some sex!!! DH had only been home 2 weeks when I got my BFP and we had to stop. Aaaaah!

We didnt untill 6 months PP and it didnt hurt or feel anydiffrent than before although SO said it felt tighter lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting P Pickle Pants:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting !*MySonIsMyWorld*!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... for sex after this one. I'm dying for some sex!!! DH had only been home 2 weeks when I got my BFP and we had to stop. Aaaaah!"</blockquote>




Oh sweet! I didn't know they had housing back that way. I'm sorry for your loss and hell I thought my 26 hours of labor was rough. Good luck on this pregnancy, my heart goes out to you for your loss and wow no sex would drive me insane lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting !*MySonIsMyWorld*!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting P Pickle Pants:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting !*MySonIsMyWorld*!:</b>" ... [snip!] ... labor was rough. Good luck on this pregnancy, my heart goes out to you for your loss and wow no sex would drive me insane lol"</blockquote>


I am losing my mind for sure  


And thanks.

And this neighborhood is an awesomely kept secret. Love it!

Quoting !*MySonIsMyWorld*!:" I tore in three places and I still feel sore down there but only when I sit on the toilet, weird right?? ... [snip!] ... felt for you to have sex again?? Did it hurt? Did you feel loose?! Sorry I'm honestly just really nervous and need input lol."

How long ago did you have your baby?

I'm only 3 weeks PP, so of course haven't had intercourse yet. I probably won't until i'm 4-6 months PP so things will be a little tighter down there lol. Also, it would probably be painful after 6 weeks.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaSav2:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:</b>" I had a c-section, so I don't know ... [snip!] ...   good luck!"</blockquote> Yeah it's different. You didn't have a baby come out of your vagina and tear it up."</blockquote>

Another woman that had a cesarean said it hurt for her as well just because I didn't deliver vagunally doesn't mean I didn't have the chance for sex to be painful the first time. Having a huge cut on your abdomen and that getting infected can hurt too! I was just giving my input.