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I deleted this cause im leaving and dont wanna come back and read it. thank you to the people that are helping me.

He heeled you in the shin and you called the cops?
Did he do anything else?

Take this from someone who was abused violently and almost killed by my ex. It starts out small and gets bigger and they NEVER change! I'm sorry you are feeling down and I understand loving someone you shouldn't. If you ever wanna talk you can PM me or pt me. But you made the right choice. A lot of women don't have the nerve and sense to get out before it gets too bad. Be proud of yourself and tell yourself the truth! He did this and you do deserve better.

I'm sorry to hear this. What exactly did he do? If he is a threat to you or baby it's not safe even if you love him.

Quoting Miss Brittany:" He heeled you in the shin and you called the cops? Did he do anything else?"

Not that day but before he has which is why I called. and I regret it. it tore my family apart. im not here for bashing if thats what is gonna happen

I understand you love him and miss him, but he should have never hurt you. That day or ANY day. You did the right thing. Think about what is best for you and your adorable baby. It will hurt for awhile, but you deserve SO much better. Hanf in there and good luck. <3

Speaking from personal experience...Walk away. Even if you love him. Because if you stay, it will only get worse. I know...I was in a relationship that turned abusive, and stayed because I loved him. You cannot change him, and if he realizes that you will come back when he does something like that, it will just get worse.

I know how hard it is, but you have to protect you and that little guy of yours.

Quoting A&J. ♥:" I'm sorry to hear this. What exactly did he do? If he is a threat to you or baby it's not safe even if you love him."

He was sleeping. I woke him up because I was bfing and needed a bottle because my supply is very low and didnt want eli to get mad so i wanted to be prepared and he woke up angry and started yelling and then kicked me so i got up and called the cops hung up but when i went to call my mom they were still on the phone and i said "i didnt mean to call" hung up did the same thing to my mom and called the cops and told them. I didnt have a bruise till they left, and I didnt press charges, I hate myself. Ive been a wreck since. I didnt want to do it but I was mad and hurt.

I dont think a heel to the shin is abuse, imo. My dh and I wrestle worse than that all the time... And being drunk I can't imagine it was too effective. I think he needs help for a drinking problem... Not abuse. Unless there is more to the story.

Quoting BeginTheRomance:" I understand you love him and miss him, but he should have never hurt you. That day or ANY day. You did ... [snip!] ... for you and your adorable baby. It will hurt for awhile, but you deserve SO much better. Hanf in there and good luck. <3"

Ive gotten so much crap for calling and so little good things like what you just said... thank you it means so much

<blockquote><b>Quoting MunchkinWrangler:</b>" I dont think a heel to the shin is abuse, imo. My dh and I wrestle worse than that all the time... And ... [snip!] ... imagine it was too effective. I think he needs help for a drinking problem... Not abuse. Unless there is more to the story."</blockquote>




They weren't wrestling and playing around! He kicked her in the shin, how is that not abuse? And what is he 5?

Quoting MunchkinWrangler:" I dont think a heel to the shin is abuse, imo. My dh and I wrestle worse than that all the time... And ... [snip!] ... imagine it was too effective. I think he needs help for a drinking problem... Not abuse. Unless there is more to the story."

good for you. he doesnt have a drinking problem, he started his anger problem when I had elliott. wasnt effective? thats why I have this huge bruise now huh? I already said i hate myself for it. Im told it wasnt abuse, all my workers said it was. When a man physically hurts you not by accident, its abuse. look at that. I say this and wanna go back. wow

Quoting Colton's Butterfly:" Speaking from personal experience...Walk away. Even if you love him. Because if you stay, it will only ... [snip!] ... something like that, it will just get worse. I know how hard it is, but you have to protect you and that little guy of yours."

Thank you so much

My ex started with pinching or biting me. I thought he just "had a bad temper."
Until one night when he threw dirt in my face, kicked me in my ribs and choked me till I passed out. I woke up to him dragging me by my hair telling me "no one will ever find your body!" So trust me you did the right thing OP. don't beat yourself up for it.

Quoting Jenna+1:" My ex started with pinching or biting me. I thought he just "had a bad temper." Until one night when ... [snip!] ... by my hair telling me "no one will ever find your body!" So trust me you did the right thing OP. don't beat yourself up for it."

oh my God =( I'm so sorry =[