Quoting * BooBear Due In July *:" It's not old i know that....plus he keeps lieing about what time he's finishing work and he isn't with ... [snip!] ... usually with because i spoke to him at work he finished at 4 today it's nearly 9 and he's still not home and his phone is off.."
make an account and chat him up. if he's lieing about when he's coming home, find a sitter and arrange for you to have dinner somewhere. get yourself all sexy and when you meet him innocently say "are you *insert name here*?" and when he turns around ask him how often and on what holidays he would like to see his daughter after she is born since he will no longer be living with you.
i like the changing everything on his profile trick too :p
but thats me.