Name advice?

What names go well with the middle name Spencer (FOR A GIRL)
I get that it is normally a boys name but my LOVELY, beautiful sister in law's name is Spencer, she is amazing and we wanted to name our future daughter after her, But use it as a middle name.
I also want advice for a first name for a BOY with the middle name Paul ( named after my hubby's cousin who recently passed away)
please no rude ass comments. I am not here for drama I will not acknowledge it. This site is for good conversation and support. I just want some other bright ideas from some lovely ladies!!!
     

Honestly, I want to answer this but I cannot after a disclaimer like that. Do you really think people want to help you out when at the end it's implying we're going to bring drama and be rude?

Sorry, pet peeve.

Yea just delete the disclaimer, lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rd.:</b>" Honestly, I want to answer this but I cannot after a disclaimer like that. Do you really think people ... [snip!] ... think people want to help you out when at the end it's implying we're going to bring drama and be rude? Sorry, pet peeve."</blockquote>



Lol yep.

Just pick a first name you like, don't limit yourself to the handful of names that 'go' with spencer.
First and last name flow is more important than first and middle name flow.

I thought of the name Adeelah (add eh lay) when I read Spencer. Don't know why but it sounds good together I think.

Quoting Lauralie89:" I thought of the name Adeelah (add eh lay) when I read Spencer. Don't know why but it sounds good together I think."

I say that name in 3 syllables... Did you make it up? lol

The only ones that sound half way decent to me is

Patricia Spencer
Natalie Spencer
Aubrey Spencer
Olivia Spencer

Quoting Lauralie89:" I thought of the name Adeelah (add eh lay) when I read Spencer. Don't know why but it sounds good together I think."

sounds like a weird ass name.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rd.:</b>" I say that name in 3 syllables... Did you make it up? lol"</blockquote>


I've heard it before, I wasn't sure how to spell it and looked it up and that's the first spelling that popped up. I made up the pronunciation on how I hear it lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" sounds like a weird ass name."</blockquote>


Maybe the proper spelling is Adalay?

I googled adeelah when i saw it because I was like  but its a real Muslim name lol. I think it was muslim... Means honest or loyal or something.
I'd say it ah-dee-lah, not ad-eh-lay.

Quoting Rd.:" Honestly, I want to answer this but I cannot after a disclaimer like that. Do you really think people ... [snip!] ... think people want to help you out when at the end it's implying we're going to bring drama and be rude? Sorry, pet peeve."

well every time I do post something I always get rude comments that are really not wanted.. So that is why I said something but I guess that you could not help yourself to the drama if it was such a problem why did you feel the need to comment on it. If it bugs you so much go to a different post and do no bother with mine..

Quoting Brittany Swick TTC#2:" well every time I do post something I always get rude comments that are really not wanted.. So that ... [snip!] ... problem why did you feel the need to comment on it. If it bugs you so much go to a different post and do no bother with mine.. "

 

Quoting hobbit*:" I googled adeelah when i saw it because I was like  but its a real Muslim name lol. I think it was muslim... Means honest or loyal or something. I'd say it ah-dee-lah, not ad-eh-lay."

ahh makes sense, lol

Quoting Rd.:" Honestly, I want to answer this but I cannot after a disclaimer like that. Do you really think people ... [snip!] ... think people want to help you out when at the end it's implying we're going to bring drama and be rude? Sorry, pet peeve."

I was not saying that everyone is, I was just asking nicely that if you have nothing nice to say do not say it at all. but CLEARLY you do not have the comprehension level to even being to understand something so simple and blunt.. I am not going to engage in this childish stupidity and I am so done with this site. because of trash like you. Is it so wrong that I wanted to be apart of a site that is supposed to offer support and adult conversation about these things, I work full time and I am a mother, a good mother that stays home with her child when I am not at work trying to provide for my child. I have been bullied sense middle school and thought that it would not happen in my adult life but sadly there are "adults" who still like to make others feel like smurf. I was simply asking for no drama yet you could not resist it. I feel sad for you. being an internet bully..