re: my baby daddy may not be my baby daddy...

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" <blockquote><b>Quoting pants88:</b>" i dont remember the date. my last period was in ... [snip!] ... july, very end of July or early August then its probably not his but if it was any time mid july there'ls a very good chance."

i didnt have a phone at the time i ran into him at the bar. i asked my bff is she knew because she was there that night, and she couldnt remember the date, we went to a hotel and asked her how exactly we paid bc i couldnt remember hoping it was by card she said we both used cash.

Quoting Mrs.O!:" you're 29 weeks so that means you had to have gotten pregnant in the middle of July(because I'm 30 weeks ... [snip!] ... due date?...I mean, did the doctor measure the baby to tell you the due date or are you going off of a due date calculator?"

i found out august 5th was due for af on august 2end. bf insisted said i was different. im giong by my first ultrasound wich is april 9th

Just to maybe ease your mind some, it doesn't matter how long you were with your bf before and never got pregnant. I was with SO for over a year (fwb not dating) and we never used protection, he never pulled out (sorry tmi). I slep with someone else 1 time around the same time as SO and became pregnant. I was freaking out because I had been with SO all that time and never got pregnant so I knew the baby couldn't be his. We had a DNA test done though and she is his, so there's always a chance!!

Quoting Katie[ღ]Siℓas:" I think that you were so honest about the cheating, you should also be honest and voice your concerns ... [snip!] ... depends on the relationship you two have I suppose. It's a tough situation though, good luck and I hope everything goes well. "

your right i should be honest about this. im just not sure how to go about it..

Quoting pants88:" he dont question it, to me anyways. never has. i dont know if its because of my ex's visectomy.. i really ... [snip!] ... me. if he dont then ill tell them both that theres a chance shes not my bfs. is that an appropriate way to go about it or no?"

I probably wouldn't call your ex just yet. I know you question whether he's sterile or not, but even if he did have a vasectomy, there is a small chance that it didn't take. Down the road, if it turns out your boyfriend is not the father, then you should call him.

And your boyfriend is probably aware of the circumstances. Maybe he doesn't want a DNA test because he doesn't want anyone else to be dad? I just really think you should talk with him about it.

Quoting Laneys*Mama:" Just to maybe ease your mind some, it doesn't matter how long you were with your bf before and never ... [snip!] ... got pregnant so I knew the baby couldn't be his. We had a DNA test done though and she is his, so there's always a chance!!"

it does make me feel a little better and thank you for sharing that with me. i really do appreciate it .. did you tell your so or did you just say hey were doin a dna test for future child support or how did you tell him?

Quoting loser mom:" I probably wouldn't call your ex just yet. I know you question whether he's sterile or not, but even ... [snip!] ... doesn't want a DNA test because he doesn't want anyone else to be dad? I just really think you should talk with him about it. "

do you have any suggestions on how to bring it up?

<blockquote><b>Quoting pants88:</b>" it does make me feel a little better and thank you for sharing that with me. i really do appreciate ... [snip!] ... it .. did you tell your so or did you just say hey were doin a dna test for future child support or how did you tell him?"</blockquote>




No, I told him from the beginning I wasn't sure who the baby belonged to. He ditched my whole pregnancy and the first 3 months of DDs life :-/

Quoting Laneys*Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting pants88:</b>" it does make me feel a little better and thank ... [snip!] ... the beginning I wasn't sure who the baby belonged to. He ditched my whole pregnancy and the first 3 months of DDs life :-/"

oh. well i am sorry that that happend, it must have been really hard for you.   i hope hes around now and takes good care of her!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting pants88:</b>" oh. well i am sorry that that happend, it must have been really hard for you.   i hope hes around now and takes good care of her!!"</blockquote>




For now. He's in and out. He's actually been around for almost 3 months this time, which is a new record lol

Quoting Laneys*Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting pants88:</b>" oh. well i am sorry that that happend, it must ... [snip!] ... For now. He's in and out. He's actually been around for almost 3 months this time, which is a new record lol"

lol buy him a cookie!!!! he deff deserves one  

<blockquote><b>Quoting pants88:</b>" lol buy him a cookie!!!! he deff deserves one  "</blockquote>




No he doesn't lol he's a jerk

Quoting pants88:" i found out august 5th was due for af on august 2end. bf insisted said i was different. im giong by my first ultrasound wich is april 9th"

does your SO remember when you told him?...

Quoting Mrs.O!:" does your SO remember when you told him?..."

i didnt ask him if he remembers .. he was more or less like you told me lets forget and move on and havnt talked about it since.

Quoting Laneys*Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting pants88:</b>" lol buy him a cookie!!!! he deff deserves one  "</blockquote> No he doesn't lol he's a jerk"

lol then cut out a picture of a cookie and be like dont that look good? had you been decent to me and your dd then you would have that cookie.