Quoting Jude ♥ JGL:" <blockquote><b>Quoting OneLoveMama:</b>" i wait until my daughter is sleep. shes 3 though, how old are your kids?"</blockquote> He's 3."
also im a stay at home mom and we play on homeschooling/are homeschooling and following a waldorf inspired education so we spend a lot of time together and mommy time doesnt start until Nika is either asleep, or is doing her free-play time or she is playing with the hubs. Everyone is different and no - one person is right. Do what works for you