Anyone else feel deformed "down there"?

Ever since i had my son who is now 5 weeks iv felt deformed, first off he was 8.6 lbs, i riped and had to get 36 stitches. Well i just looked to see how my sitiches were i only have a few left but i dont look like i used on, one lip looks smaller then other and the opening looks huge compaired to how it used to be. Is this normal? Will it go back to normal? I cant imagine have sex while looking like this.

The swelling will go down, and everything will go similar to normal.

I have a slight prolapse that I have to deal with for the rest of my life, or until I have a hysterectomy. It ruins my sex life, so I understand how you feel.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-lily:</b>" The swelling will go down, and everything will go similar to normal. I have a slight prolapse that ... [snip!] ... have to deal with for the rest of my life, or until I have a hysterectomy. It ruins my sex life, so I understand how you feel. "</blockquote>




Thanks at least im not alone

Quoting Kaiden M. Mom:" Ever since i had my son who is now 5 weeks iv felt deformed, first off he was 8.6 lbs, i riped and had ... [snip!] ... compaired to how it used to be. Is this normal? Will it go back to normal? I cant imagine have sex while looking like this."

36 stitches? Holy crap! I only had 6-8 I believe.. I feel the same way though. I looked in the mirror and got grossed out lol. My lips aren't even either, and I have a huge gap.. It's COMPLETELY normal. You just pushed out a baby. It'll take a long time to go back to normal.

If you're BF, it'll help tighten everything down there.