Quoting Kaiden M. Mom:" Ever since i had my son who is now 5 weeks iv felt deformed, first off he was 8.6 lbs, i riped and had ... [snip!] ... compaired to how it used to be. Is this normal? Will it go back to normal? I cant imagine have sex while looking like this."
36 stitches? Holy crap! I only had 6-8 I believe.. I feel the same way though. I looked in the mirror and got grossed out lol. My lips aren't even either, and I have a huge gap.. It's COMPLETELY normal. You just pushed out a baby. It'll take a long time to go back to normal.
If you're BF, it'll help tighten everything down there.