re: no bond?

I will talk to my doctor when I go. I hope once I see him or her this changes.

<blockquote><b>Quoting mommy 2 jax:</b>" Both my kids were surprises but with my son it was different. I loved him right away. I just feel like ... [snip!] ... hear the heartbeat it'll change. I'm glad I'm not alone in feeling this way. My SO is upset that I'm not happy to be pregnant."</blockquote>


That's not very empathetic of him, I'm sorry. :/

I was not the least bit excited even once throughout my pregnancy and I was pretty goddamn vocal about it.

I had this exact issue. I made a post about it also. People said it would get better...and to be completely honest with you....it didn't. And shortly after he was born, I was diagnosed with PPD. It took a couple months, but It did get better. Now he's my little 5 month old best friend  

Hang in there, things will get better.