re: Made my decision

Go get plan B.

It sounds like you'll hate this baby because of who the father is and all the things you gave up for it.

Please be smart and go get plan B.

Quoting Mommy|Of2:" Go get plan B. It sounds like you'll hate this baby because of who the father is and all the things you gave up for it. Please be smart and go get plan B."

Umm I would never hate my baby bc of who the father is or what I gave up. I gave up a lot to have DD and I absolutely hate her father, wish I never met him but at the same time I'm glad I met him or else I wouldn't have DD. I love her to death. If I was going to hate a baby based on who their father is it would be DD. But I could never hate her she is my little miracle and I love her to pieces.

Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:" Umm I would never hate my baby bc of who the father is or what I gave up. I gave up a lot to have DD ... [snip!] ... based on who their father is it would be DD. But I could never hate her she is my little miracle and I love her to pieces. "

You just had a baby and I don't think your emotions are stable enough for another baby. You should consider just caring for her and focusing only on her for now. You have mixed emotions that's the first step that lets me know your not ready for another. How your feeling and the circumstance of how your unsure makes it sound selfish on your part because your doing this mainly for BD and yourself but not for the well being of your daughter and her future.