Be boo beep boo

Blah blah blah.

Yup. i can relate.
My dude today while i'm trying to write my son's report with him, clean up after dude's mess cos his buddy was coming over in a bit, entertain the toddler, 'n etc etc..
really pours a tub of hot water in the foot thing he got me for christmas 'n starts soaking his feet in front of the tv. don't mind me. just pregnant as hell 'n doing everything.

I can relate. It IS hard, but you have to see it from their point of view too. He works all day and then comes home to a stressed out you, he doesn't realise that he could just help and make it better, he just sees you stressed, kids making noise and it's like OMG WHERE'S THE BAR?!

Have you tried sitting him down and saying that you would like to be able to go out? Maybe alternate weekends where you can go out with friends to a movie or a bar or something so you both get a decent amount of adult time?

Nope. My SO isn't that selfish. He needs to be home. Period. I'm sorry you're putting up with that.

<blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" Yup. i can relate. My dude today while i'm trying to write my son's report with him, clean up after ... [snip!] ... got me for christmas 'n starts soaking his feet in front of the tv. don't mind me. just pregnant as hell 'n doing everything."</blockquote>



Hell no lol. Maybe you should have picked up all his crap then dumped it in his car and said, "all done!"
 

Quoting HippieBabie BFTs:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" Yup. i can relate. My dude today while i'm trying ... [snip!] ... Hell no lol. Maybe you should have picked up all his crap then dumped it in his car and said, "all done!"  "

Seriously  
instead i just angry texted/vented to my mom like a big baby   but..it kinda helped  

i hope you can catch a break soon!

That's pretty smurfed up IMO. Just because he works doesn't mean he gets to go out whenever he damn well pleases.

<blockquote><b>Quoting LumpySpacePrincess:</b>" I can relate. It IS hard, but you have to see it from their point of view too. He works all day and then ... [snip!] ... weekends where you can go out with friends to a movie or a bar or something so you both get a decent amount of adult time?"</blockquote>

Trust me he has it easy. He works like two days a week then the rest at home. Light work too. I know he deserves fun but compared to me it's unfair. I can't go out bc I breast feed. True story.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" Nope. My SO isn't that selfish. He needs to be home. Period. I'm sorry you're putting up with that."</blockquote>



It's ok. I'm used to it. It's made me realize I don't need him I'm all I need to be happy.

Lol somewhat. SO gives me my Saturday mornings to sleep in, throws it in my face & then let's me have DS. I end up sitting in my bedroom all day breastfeeeding my 10 week old while he plays video games. Then he comes to the bedroom & falls asleep. The next morning he bitches & moans cuz I didn't come out of the bedroom to sit with him while he plays black ops 2. Our roommate was out in the living room all day with SO & I wasn't gonna be flipping my tits out in front of him lol

Quoting HippieBabie BFTs:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LumpySpacePrincess:</b>" I can relate. It IS hard, but you have ... [snip!] ... at home. Light work too. I know he deserves fun but compared to me it's unfair. I can't go out bc I breast feed. True story."

Ohhhh ... Two days a week?! Nah smurf that. SO works 5-6 days a week (normally 5 but often gets called in) so I let him take naps and relax and stuff but if he worked 2 days a week he would have to get off his ass and start helping or I would flip my smurf. And his too.

<blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" Seriously   instead i just angry texted/vented to my mom like a big baby   but..it kinda helped   i hope you can catch a break soon! "</blockquote>




You got to get even like oops too busy to do your laundry bc I was soaking mag feet.

<blockquote><b>Quoting HippieBabie BFTs:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" Nope. My SO isn't that selfish. He needs to ... [snip!] ... up with that."</blockquote> It's ok. I'm used to it. It's made me realize I don't need him I'm all I need to be happy."</blockquote>




Well that's positive  

I have to do everything WITH SO here (he's on workmans comp since the accident) I get kinda mad sometimes but he really can't do too much because his neck and back are smurfed. It gets frustrating sometimes :/

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" Lol somewhat. SO gives me my Saturday mornings to sleep in, throws it in my face & then let's me have ... [snip!] ... ops 2. Our roommate was out in the living room all day with SO & I wasn't gonna be flipping my tits out in front of him lol"</blockquote>



With my first I was like this too. With my second I'm evil I'll unplug the tv. I'll wake him up and tell him this isn't a hotel he can leave. Bc he works from home and would sleep in while I got up with the kids. Nope. I got him on that early schedule bc he is so lazy. He's thanking me now bc he is doing better in business getting up before 9