Quoting Jennybananna:" I would write a birth plan. Nothing to extensive just the key points so you can give that to your nurse ... [snip!] ... and other than that no doctor or nurse touched her for the first two hours. I nursed and cuddled and so did DH for that time. "
That's basically what I want. I'm still upset how DD's birth went.
I LOVED the doctors and nurses and the hospital but hated how things went. My water broke so they wouldn't even let me out of bed to walk around. He used forceps without telling me, and the other thing kind of like a spatula (forgot what it's called) and then they cut DD's cord and took her away. Ugh.