Sister's wedding vent.

My sister is getting married tomorrow. Thank God. But I need to vent before I scream and wake the baby.
She's bitched about me losing too much weight. I'm not skinny by any means, but I'm smaller than her for the first time in her life, so she's jealous. It's not my fault she didn't get off her ass when DH and I offered to exersice with her.
I let her borrow our wedding flutes and serving utensils from my wedding. I loved them and was so proud of them.
She called today to tell me that she got them engraved with her and her SO's name and wedding date. And then said "we'll give them back."
Bitch, I don't want them back with you and you husband's name engraved in them! DH is pissed. He yelled at her.
My shoes aren't right, she said black heels. And that's exactly what they are, but they aren't right? Wtf.


Oh God, please let tomorrow go by quick and that me and my sister make it out of this wedding alive, and not in jail.

OMG I would be so pissed about the flutes and serving utensils!!! If your shoes aren't right then maybe she should have picked a shoe for everyone to wear, otherwise, just black is whatever you want then.

Oh my gosh, I'd be furious about the whole engraving thing   That's so rude!

Sounds like she's gone into Bridezilla mode. She's probably stressed, but thats not an excuse. Good luck dealing with her for the next 24 hours!  

  She engraved YOUR things with her and her SO's names and wedding date?! WTF I would be so pissed off.

Sounds like you have a rude bitchy sister. I'd be so pissed that she engraved hers and her husbands names in them. Like, why would you want them back?! How rude of her. And tell her that the shoes are perfectly fine, if she doesn't like them, buy you some new ones.  

I'd be pissed about her engraving those!!

And I have a feeling in another year, i'll be in your position.
My Sister is ALREADY bridezilla.

Omg, who engraves someone else's property with their name???

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blah:</b>"   She engraved YOUR things with her and her SO's names and wedding date?! WTF I would be so pissed off."</blockquote>




Yeah. I cried. DH offered to buy new ones, but that'd be pointless. We never used them except on our anniversary, but they were still special to me.

The utensil thing sucks! What was she thinking? As for the weight thing, let it roll off you back. Her confidence shouldn't depend on other people and there is nothing you can do about it. With the shoes just tell her you tried your best and you are sorry they are not to her liking. ( it is her wedding after all) then remind her this day for everyone to celebrate her. All eyes will be on her and not your shoes ;) haha

Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blah:</b>"   She engraved YOUR things with her and her ... [snip!] ... to buy new ones, but that'd be pointless. We never used them except on our anniversary, but they were still special to me."

I feel like crying for you!

That is so effing rude...what was she thinking?!

Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blah:</b>"   She engraved YOUR things with her and her ... [snip!] ... to buy new ones, but that'd be pointless. We never used them except on our anniversary, but they were still special to me."

    Did you say anything to her about it?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blah:</b>"     Did you say anything to her about it? "</blockquote>




Yeah! After I caught my breath I told her they were special to me and it was a bitch thing for her to do.
She told me that since we didn't use them anymore she didn't see a problem with it, because we'd be getting them back.
I told her we used them on our anniversary, and she just said "oh, well you still can." Seriously?
Then DH started yelling at her when I told him why I was crying. She hung up.

Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blah:</b>"     Did you say anything to her about it? "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... just said "oh, well you still can." Seriously? Then DH started yelling at her when I told him why I was crying. She hung up."

How old is she?

I'd seriously be pissed.

i believe you can UNdo the engraving but id be posses she did it in the first place and troll her she needs to pay to have it UN done