re: I HATE my kids dad.

You hate him, but yet you foot the bill for his cell phone and you're buying him a car? Smurf, you can hate me too if you want.  

Stop jumping through hoops for him obviously he wouldn't do the same for your or the kids. Cut your losses!

I can see why you don't cut off his cell phone for your kids sake...but he is totally taking advantage of you.

Quoting Red Bottom:" Stop being his mommy and start being his ex."

    

<blockquote><b>Quoting Samanthaaaa ♥:</b>" Sounds like you still have feelings for him and are trying to win him back by doing nice things for him. My nest friend does the same thing with her BD."</blockquote>




I was thinking the same thing.

Put that money you spend on him, towards your kiddos. Let the loser fend for himself.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" You pay his cell, you're buying him a car? Stop and smack yourself. lol Seriously, why??"</blockquote>




Amen!
You pay for his smurf and help him out all so he can spend his money, time and attention on some girl? And just ignore his children?
Screw him.
And you should know better.

I would stop paying for him. He's taking advantage of you.

<blockquote><b>Quoting It's Delivered:</b>" I can see why you don't cut off his cell phone for your kids sake...but he is totally taking advantage of you."</blockquote>




It sounds like he doesn't even talk to his kids when the girlfriend is around, so let her pay for his bill if she dictates who he speaks to.

If you hated him then you wouldn't be payinf for ANYTHING for him. I'll come see your kids every other weekend if you pay for my cell phone and buy me a car.

Quoting Third Time Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting It's Delivered:</b>" I can see why you don't cut off his cell ... [snip!] ... he doesn't even talk to his kids when the girlfriend is around, so let her pay for his bill if she dictates who he speaks to."

Agreed, if his new girlfriend is so great that he would rather be with her then his babies then let her pay for his ass.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" You pay his cell, you're buying him a car? Stop and smack yourself. lol Seriously, why??"</blockquote>




Im not buying him a car. HE is buying him a car, I was just trying to help him find a decent one in his range... My good friend happens to be selling a really good car for 1200 and I told him let me know so she wont sell it to someone else and he just ignored me

Quoting Goneforever:" Well he does it because u let him. Do u still sleep together? Why are you still paying his smurf?"

i don't LET him do anything.
I don't always pay his bill, sometimes he pays mine and sometimes i pay his.
He got on my phone plan before we broke up (our contract is up in august well mine june his is august)

Quoting Samanthaaaa ♥:" Sounds like you still have feelings for him and are trying to win him back by doing nice things for him. My nest friend does the same thing with her BD."

heh.
I anything but LOVE him.
Trust me, after all he's done to me i'd kill him if i could get away with it.
I put up with him for the kids. I figured if i helped him FIND a car (again, not buy it. I can't even afford a car for ME) he'd make more of an effort to drive the 20 mins to come see the kids

Quoting ℳary ℐane:" Put that money you spend on him, towards your kiddos. Let the loser fend for himself."

Well with the phone we help each other out if money is tight on the others end.. that's the only time i have spent money on him

<blockquote><b>Quoting BetterOffSingle!:</b>" Well with the phone we help each other out if money is tight on the others end.. that's the only time i have spent money on him"</blockquote>




Does he pay CS?