Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:" Umm excuse me? I am concerned about her well being but lots of people have kids close in age. I love ... [snip!] ... but I won't because i've learned that tough times should make a couple grow together and become stronger not tear them apart."
Congratulations? I mean seriously. Even being married it's not easy to be expecting a second. We had NO plans of having this baby now. And no, you're not putting her best interests first. No matter what you'd like to believe. It's very unsafe and dangerous for you to get pregnant again so soon. Not to mention going through a pregnancy with such a young child will be taking time and energy you need for her away. If you were so happy with things, you wouldn't have even chanced getting pregnant again. And realistically, you have a newborn, that sleeps a lot right now, you don't know yet how hard an infant can be yet. You may get lucky and have an easy child, but what if you don't? What if you get horrible morning sickness next time? What if you're keeled over a toilet bowl and your 3-4 month old is screaming to be fed or changed? You can't simply tell her "Mommy's sick you need to wait."