Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:" Yea I decided I want to wait to have another baby. I called to see about getting plan B today but the ... [snip!] ... the baby of course but if I'm not pregnant SO is gonna learn what a condom is and use it until i'm ready for another baby  "

Riiiight.
If you're not using protection, you're trying to get pregnant (IMO).

You're not fooling anyone - want another baby? Knock yourself out.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:</b>" Yea so did I and that is part of the reason SO wants to concieve number 2 we have trouble conceiving and he knows that I am super fertile after just having a baby."</blockquote>





You probably won't read this and I'm super late on answering, but the above statement of yours that I've quoted really stands out to me.

IMO, it's selfish of him to ask you to conceive for him now, just because you're more fertile. You've JUST had a baby, a high-needs one at that. Why wouldn't he want to to recover from the strain of your pregnancy and focus all you can on your daughter?

If he had YOUR well being at heart, he'd want YOU ( and by extension, your child) to be as healthy physically and mentally before he asked you to take on forming a human again.

Also, doesn't he know your daughter has colic and apnea? Why would he not be more concerned about HER than about making one of "his own"?

It sounds like he needs to rethink his priorities. What's more important to him, you and the child you have now, or proving to himself that he can make a baby too?

Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:" Get over yourself my mom was my age when she had me and she did just fine. Why don't you stop being a judgemental bitch and get back to your own life and kids!~"

Was she in a stable relationship? YOU ARE NOT. I am not a judgemental bitch, I was where you are when I was 21. I thought that being with someone and having another kid was great, he wanted it, I wanted it... turned out it wasnt great. He left..

Just do some thinking before you do anything rash.

Quoting thisunrest:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:</b>" Yea so did I and that is part of the ... [snip!] ... priorities. What's more important to him, you and the child you have now, or proving to himself that he can make a baby too?"

I think this may be my fault. I got into a fight with him near the end of my pregnancy and complained to his brother that A probably knew he couldn't make babies the whole time we were trying to concieve because I got pregnant with DD by someone else right away without trying that hard and A and I tried for years and couldn't have a healthy pregnancy. And once I suggested he might have a low sperm count and should go get tested for that if he really wants a baby down the road :/

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Was she in a stable relationship? YOU ARE NOT. I am not a judgemental bitch, I was where you are when ... [snip!] ... great, he wanted it, I wanted it... turned out it wasnt great. He left.. Just do some thinking before you do anything rash. "

Thanks and I apologize for the name calling.

Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:" Thanks and I apologize for the name calling."

Eh. No skin off my back. lol. I dont want you to get into something that you might regret and be in over your head. <3

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Eh. No skin off my back. lol. I dont want you to get into something that you might regret and be in over your head. <3 "

Yea but if I am pregnant already thats just life. I just plan on buying condoms himself and telling him use them or no sex. If I expect him to buy them he won't.

good for you.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:</b>" Excuse me I was in college when I started ttc. Maybe you should pratice your math skills. I got pregnant 2 months before I turned 19 and then I miscarried."</blockquote>

I never once stated that YOU ttc in highschool. Just that it had been a trend. My math is perfectly correct considering I was referring to a choice I decided not to make in highschool(2 years ago for me).

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:</b>" Excuse me I was in college when I ... [snip!] ... My math is perfectly correct considering I was referring to a choice I decided not to make in highschool(2 years ago for me)."

It's okay. She clearly lacks basic reading and reading comprehension skills. First I had 4 pregnancies in a year, then this lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" It's okay. She clearly lacks basic reading and reading comprehension skills. First I had 4 pregnancies in a year, then this lol"</blockquote>

At least she got the # of pregnancies right lmao if nothing else

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" It's okay. She clearly lacks ... [snip!] ... 4 pregnancies in a year, then this lol"</blockquote> At least she got the # of pregnancies right lmao if nothing else"

That's like saying "Well Hitler killed SOMEONE. I know that much..." lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" That's like saying "Well Hitler killed SOMEONE. I know that much..." lol"</blockquote>

Hahaha! That's very true. Some just don't have an eye for details