Wow
This is what gets me about the world

I'll never understand this

People like this? Get pregnant so easily.
And people more like the ones on this forum, try and try and try.

Quoting SmashedPumpkin:" Wow This is what gets me about the world I'll never understand this People like this? Get pregnant so easily. And people more like the ones on this forum, try and try and try."

I agree. I wish I could be as fertile as some women. OP I don't know the original post but from following the conversation I can see what it is you are wanting. If I may I will tell you from personal experience that if you're not in a stable relationship don't add a baby to the mix. I know you have the one you have now and I see she has special needs. One is hard enough. I had my first at 15. I was stupid, young, and immature. I never once thought I'd get pregnant because I wasn't thinking about that. I had my next baby at 23 and I can tell you even then it was difficult. I was married at the time he was born. Even being with my husband it was still hard because why HE WAS NOT A FATHER!! If your on again off again SO wants you to have a baby with him then he needs to stay with you. I can understand the hurt a miscarriage causes. Me and my new husband lost a baby boy Dec. 2011 and we've been trying to have another since. But having a new baby to replace the one that was lost is not a good reason to have one. I also see how you have conception issues. Did you have any type of diagnosis as to why you have these issues? Maybe you can find the problem and work on fixing it so it'll be somewhat easier to conceive. You don't need to try and get pregannt now because you're super fertile after having a baby. There really is a slim chance you'll get pregnant right away so whether you try now and don't get pregnant or wait you'll have the same result. I hope you think long and hard before you have another baby especially with a man "or boy" who only has sex with you when the mood suits him. If it were me I'd be damned if I give it up to someone if they don't wanna be with me all the time.

Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:" I agree. I wish I could be as fertile as some women. OP I don't know the original post but from following ... [snip!] ... when the mood suits him. If it were me I'd be damned if I give it up to someone if they don't wanna be with me all the time."

Yea I know it wasn't the smartest decision. If we are not pregnant this time we are not trying again for a long time. I am really scared and nervous right now. I just wanted to make him happy. That's all I have ever wanted was to see him happy to watch our dreams come true together. I've never loved anyone else the way I love A. He has me wrapped around his finger every bit as much as my daughter does. Having her in my arms and him at my side, I've never been happier in my entire life. I've never felt so whole and complete. We really don't NEED to add another baby to the picture.

Quoting SmashedPumpkin:" Wow This is what gets me about the world I'll never understand this People like this? Get pregnant so easily. And people more like the ones on this forum, try and try and try."

People like this? I'll have you know I tried for a very long time before concieving my daughter. It took me almost 3 years to have a healthy baby. I am not a fertile mertile. I love my daughter with all my heart, wanting another child does not make me a horrible person.

Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:" That's not for you to decide, miss 4 pregnancies in one year! I am considering going to get plan B tommorow. ... [snip!] ... B tommorow. I don't do birth control though bc it can effect your fertility later on down the road when you want to have kids."

Wow. That is a NASTY thing to bring up! You should be smurfing ashamed. You're disgusting.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:</b>" That's not for you to decide, miss 4 pregnancies in one year! I am considering going to get plan B tommorow. ... [snip!] ... B tommorow. I don't do birth control though bc it can effect your fertility later on down the road when you want to have kids."</blockquote>

That's smurfed up. As someone who has lost a child as well how dare you throw a loss in her face. She was married & had every right to TTC because she has a loyal man who loves her. I bet you would have been highly offended if someone threw your miscarriage in your face. You said you got really depressed over it. How do you know whether or not she's sensitive over her losses as well? I've taken some low blows before but I would never say some smurfed up smurf like that to someone.  

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:</b>" That's not for you to decide, miss ... [snip!] ... over her losses as well? I've taken some low blows before but I would never say some smurfed up smurf like that to someone.  "

It just proves my point that she's immature.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" It just proves my point that she's immature."</blockquote>

A bit of a hypocrite as well. She's been trying for years to get pregnant from a relationship that was never fully stable, got pregnant by another man, had his baby & wants more with the one from before.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Devil's Advocate:</b>" Wow. That is a NASTY thing to bring up! You should be smurfing ashamed. You're disgusting. "</blockquote>




Agreed.

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" It just proves my point that ... [snip!] ... a relationship that was never fully stable, got pregnant by another man, had his baby & wants more with the one from before."

And has been TTC for YEARS, yet is only 21? Seriously? lol

I<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" And has been TTC for YEARS, yet is only 21? Seriously? lol"</blockquote>

Lmao   doesn't everyone want babies in highschool these days?

I'm glad I didn't follow that baby trend.

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" I<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" And has been TTC for YEARS, ... [snip!] ... Lmao   doesn't everyone want babies in highschool these days? I'm glad I didn't follow that baby trend."

I am an "old" mom lol. I didn't have my first until 27. I'm the oldest in my family to have their first child. Also the only one of the kids to have been married first.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I am an "old" mom lol. I didn't have my first until 27. I'm the oldest in my family to have their first child. Also the only one of the kids to have been married first. "</blockquote>

I was planning on being married a year ago but at the time I started getting really sick so I needed my tricare through my step dad. Then in march it would have conflicted with my insurance for the pregnancy.

Lol aren't you the youngest though?

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I am an "old" mom lol. I didn't ... [snip!] ... my step dad. Then in march it would have conflicted with my insurance for the pregnancy. Lol aren't you the youngest though?"

Yeah I am the youngest. BUT my dad had his first kid at 14, then oldest sister was like 17 I think, oldest brother was 24, youngest brother was 17 I think as well, then the next youngest above me was 16, and my mom was 24.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" Yeah I am the youngest. BUT my dad had his first kid at 14, then oldest sister was like 17 I think, ... [snip!] ... oldest brother was 24, youngest brother was 17 I think as well, then the next youngest above me was 16, and my mom was 24."</blockquote>

Wow. I wanted my first at 22 lol