<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" Yeah I am. 4 pregnancies in 2.5 years."</blockquote>

Holy smurf! I wouldn't have been able to handle that

Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:" What I am worried about my list of cons -Leilani won't get as much one on one time...the pro to that ... [snip!] ... cause baby#2 to be born prematurely -I'm trying to finish my bachelor's degree and doing that with 2 kids would be a handful"

Why weren't these good enough reasons to say no to sex? You know you don't want another right now. Abstaining from sex is not that hard to do or uhhh driving to the store for some condoms?? Grow up.

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" Yeah I am. 4 pregnancies in 2.5 years."</blockquote> Holy smurf! I wouldn't have been able to handle that"

One was a tubal and I only got to about 6ish weeks. Had to have a medical abortion basically. They put me on chemo to kill the baby. Second was a missed miscarriage, found out at 10 weeks that baby quit growing around 7 weeks. Went for 4 more weeks or so waiting to miscarry and didn't. Finally called and asked for a D&C because I was worried about infection, come to find out my body never caught on that the baby was gone so everything but the baby was still growing so I had to have a full D&C to remove the 18+ week sized placenta. Then I had Rory, and 3 days before he turned 6 months I got pregnant with this one.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" One was a tubal and I only got to about 6ish weeks. Had to have a medical abortion basically. They ... [snip!] ... to remove the 18+ week sized placenta. Then I had Rory, and 3 days before he turned 6 months I got pregnant with this one."</blockquote>

I have only miscarried once. It was under the wrong circumstances & I was barely 16. I counted that loss as a blessing for a long time because I was in a bad place in life. I don't mean to pry but what made you decide to keep this baby since Rory is still so young?

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" One was a tubal and I only ... [snip!] ... I was in a bad place in life. I don't mean to pry but what made you decide to keep this baby since Rory is still so young?"

I'd never even consider not keeping a child. I don't agree with abortion. At all.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I'd never even consider not keeping a child. I don't agree with abortion. At all. "</blockquote>

I don't either. Though I can't say i'd be super thrilled if I got pregnant right now. I know it would be very hard because Zeke is almost 10 weeks old & he requires so much attention right now.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I'd never even consider not ... [snip!] ... pregnant right now. I know it would be very hard because Zeke is almost 10 weeks old & he requires so much attention right now."</blockquote>


I honestly haven't been thrilled either LOL. Especially dealing with all day sickness and a very needy infant that has never slept through the night in his life. Seriously, puking my guts out at 2 am and then having to rush to feed a crying baby. Not fun!

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... through the night in his life. Seriously, puking my guts out at 2 am and then having to rush to feed a crying baby. Not fun!"</blockquote>

Ew lol my ideal time to have a 2nd is when my 1st is out of diapers so he is hopefully on a better sleep schedule.

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... Ew lol my ideal time to have a 2nd is when my 1st is out of diapers so he is hopefully on a better sleep schedule."

I wanted him to be 3 when the next was born. YEAH RIGHT!

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I wanted him to be 3 when the next was born. YEAH RIGHT!"</blockquote>

Rory will be....14ish months when your daughters born?

Lol I'm scared to set a specific year. I said I wanted at least a 2 year gap when I was pregnant. I'm currently waiting on my 2nd pp period(its a week late from last months) but SO keeps making jokes about it because he wants our babies 2 years apart or less. Because his sister is only barely 2 years younger than him -.-

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I wanted him to be 3 when the ... [snip!] ... about it because he wants our babies 2 years apart or less. Because his sister is only barely 2 years younger than him -.-"

14-15 depending on when she comes. He came early so I'm guessing she will too.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Okay, so, let me get this right. You have a high needs baby. You have a track record of being very sick ... [snip!] ... Yet you're not going to prevent a pregnancy, because mommy and daddy will step in and rescue you. Yup. Spectacularly mature."

No I don't plan on having my parents come to my rescue all the time, but I know they are there for me when I really need them. Like if one of my kids was in the hospital they would be able to watch the other one if I needed them to. If Leilani wasn't getting enough one on one time and felt jealous of the new baby Grandpa and Grandma wouldn't hesitate to spend some one on one time with her. I never expected her to have my parents wrapped around her finger the way she does. I do love seeing them interact with her but I don't expect them to do everything for me or come to my rescue all the time.

Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:" No I don't plan on having my parents come to my rescue all the time, but I know they are there for me ... [snip!] ... I do love seeing them interact with her but I don't expect them to do everything for me or come to my rescue all the time."

FFS. It's not your parents' job to spend one on one time with your kid  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:</b>" No I don't plan on having my parents come to my rescue all the time, but I know they are there for me ... [snip!] ... I do love seeing them interact with her but I don't expect them to do everything for me or come to my rescue all the time."</blockquote>

Why would you expect them to have one on one time with her? If she is feeling neglected by YOU, then it is your job to correct it. My mother did that smurf with me & it ruined our relationship for years. I hated her for the attention she showed my younger brother & I always felt like she picked him over me

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" FFS. It's not your parents' job to spend one on one time with your kid  "

I never said it was. However even if I don't have another baby my parents will still want to spend one on one time with her. That is what granparents do, at least in my family. My grandma babysat me when my mom worked and my mom has pretty much begged me to be able to babysit Leilani when I go back to work. She is bored out of her mind all day at home anyways. She broke her leg 2 years ago and has work restrictions and has a hard time finding a job and can't do the kind of work she used to do so she is applying for disability. I think it's nice that she wants to babysit for me when I go back to work and I would pay her of course.