re: does your so...*tmi*

Quoting FroggysMommy:" Yuck, what a lameass. Tony never cared if I touched myself... I never cared if he did. I walked in once ... [snip!] ... he was home early. I'm all "Hey babe, taking a nap? Why is the computer in here, were you listening to music? Oh, OHHHH!" lol"

yeah, that guy sucked. he was all about me supposedly but anytime i wanted him to come over, he was always too busy. he worked for his brother, so it's not like he was gonna lose his job. and he was just a jerk about stuff. he lived with his mom, so we always had to go to my house, and i was actually still living with my ex (lol, awkward, i know... but he lived in my finished basement), so it was sometimes weird. but... he would always tell me he was on his way over late at night and then never show up. idk what his deal was. it turned out he was still married, but separated, i guess. oh, he was a piece of work. i still see him driving around sometimes and i give him the stink eye.

mine doesnt care....but, he has problems and we have never had sex and cant, so if he got mad, thatd be pretty stupid...i cant really get off from oral or hand play,just sex or with help(toys or porn) so i use my toys for now :-/ every once in a while he will use my toys on me...otherwise, i gotta take care of myself lol

He would yes, neither of us do though. I guess it depends on the couple though

Quoting AshWinsMomma:" mine doesnt care....but, he has problems and we have never had sex and cant, so if he got mad, thatd ... [snip!] ... porn) so i use my toys for now :-/ every once in a while he will use my toys on me...otherwise, i gotta take care of myself lol"

Not trying to be rude or too nosy or anything but why can't you have sex?

Quoting Rach ϟ Slytherin:" Not trying to be rude or too nosy or anything but why can't you have sex?"

I was wondering too....

Quoting Rach ϟ Slytherin:" Not trying to be rude or too nosy or anything but why can't you have sex?"

he has erectile issues, and hasnt/wont see a doctor   he can cum(from oral), but he cant get hard to have sex, so we have been together for a while and no sex... ever. but, im tired of waiting, so i told him id he doesnt fix it soon, im done :-/ but if we could, im sure it would of happened near the beginning...

<blockquote><b>Quoting AshWinsMomma:</b>" he has erectile issues, and hasnt/wont see a doctor   he can cum(from oral), but he cant get hard to ... [snip!] ... so i told him id he doesnt fix it soon, im done :-/ but if we could, im sure it would of happened near the beginning..."</blockquote>



Damn, that really sucks. If he's not willing to go to the doctor and find out the problem, I don't think I'd be able to deal with it.

Quoting Loka Lokita (15):" Does your partner get mad if they find out you masterbated? We have sex at least four days a week, but ... [snip!] ... told him I did yesterday and he got highly offended. I don't get it, I know he masterbates and I am totally okay with that!"

My husband doesn't care. If I watched porn he would be upset though.. and I would also be if he watched porn. We don't do porn in our relationship. But just masturbation in general.. no problemo.

Quoting Rach ϟ Slytherin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting AshWinsMomma:</b>" he has erectile issues, and hasnt/wont see ... [snip!] ... that really sucks. If he's not willing to go to the doctor and find out the problem, I don't think I'd be able to deal with it."

its unbelievably hard to deal with...it absolutely kills me. i think about it 24/7, and it puts me in depression...ive waited 2 years for him to fix it, so i told him if he doesnt at least make a dr appointment by march, then im done when our lease is up in april... it sucks because everything else is perfect, and ive always seen me marrying him. but im not giving up sex at 25.. no way. it really sucks, idk how i do it sometimes

<blockquote><b>Quoting AshWinsMomma:</b>" its unbelievably hard to deal with...it absolutely kills me. i think about it 24/7, and it puts me ... [snip!] ... and ive always seen me marrying him. but im not giving up sex at 25.. no way. it really sucks, idk how i do it sometimes"</blockquote>

Idk how you do it either. You just gotta stand your ground for you and him. I don't see how he's not worried about it. You'd think he'd want to know what is going on more than anybody..

Quoting Rach ϟ Slytherin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting AshWinsMomma:</b>" its unbelievably hard to deal with...it ... [snip!] ... for you and him. I don't see how he's not worried about it. You'd think he'd want to know what is going on more than anybody.."

yeah i know... and hes so caring and nice, i dont see how he doesnt "care" that it puts me in this horrible depression and makes me worry all the time. i hate that its such a huge issue for me, yet there isnt smurf i can do about it. :-/

Quoting Loka Lokita (15):" Does your partner get mad if they find out you masterbated? We have sex at least four days a week, but ... [snip!] ... told him I did yesterday and he got highly offended. I don't get it, I know he masterbates and I am totally okay with that!"

No.. Because we never talk about it lol, but I don't think he would care. Maybe he is getting offended because he knows he can't get you off, so you resort to doing it yourself. He may be embarassed or something.