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i feel the same way sometimes..at first its always great but then you just start getting used to each other..sit down with him and tell him how you feel..its hard to express your feelings sometimes..men dont really understand unless you tell them a million times how you feel..im hoping that it gets better fot the both of us..plus our hormones are out of control at the moment..we need to feel loved and pretty,to get attention from your other half can makr a world of difference on how you feel...ill keep you in my thoughts~!~ good luck..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Valentines day baby girl:</b>" i feel the same way sometimes..at first its always great but then you just start getting used to each ... [snip!] ... get attention from your other half can makr a world of difference on how you feel...ill keep you in my thoughts~!~ good luck.."</blockquote>




Exactly & he neer gives me compliments anymore either "/ I want to tell him but its like impossible to get to talk to him. I've been wanting to try to go out on a date with him and hope that will start getting us n k to normal but I never know when he has off anymore

I found the book Love and Respect (Emerson Eggrichs) very helpful in learning how to relate to my spouse in a way to which he will respond. It can completely change the way you look at relating to him, and often if one spouse changes, the other can't help but respond in time. Not always, obviously, but it's worth a try. I've read a bunch of relationship books, but this one was clearly the best.
If you don't think your counselor is helping, look for a new one. Hopefully you can find one you mesh better with. There's a lot of different approaches and what works for one couple might not help at all for another.
Good luck with everything. I hope you guys make it.

exactly..i have to ask him if my outfit looks nice and things like that..i even try to wear things that anyother guy would love to see,a low cut shirt shorts with no underwear,lol,,ect..but nope nothing.weve been together only 9 months!! i hope it dont get worse