Quoting SmashedPumpkin:" Change your bank account password?! And security questions. If he won't change the account, at least ... [snip!] ... of it And OMG does she sit in the bathroom & scrub his back when he bathes? Sorry! Flashback to a Sex & the City episode LOL"I'm assuming this was to me because I think I'm the only one that talked about my bank account lol It doesn't matter if I change my password the way the bank has it set up, when she logs in to see her accounts she sees ALL accounts she's on. She can go in and take money (she never has) or transfer money to us. DH got an 'allowance' and she paid his gas money before we were married so he wouldn't have to work while in school but now that we have a family I told DH i'm not accepting any more money from her because then I felt like I had to do what she wanted and we don't agree when it comes to DD so we no longer get any money from her and DH has a good job. He just ordered like 3 booklets of checks so I defiantly will have to wait until they are gone but when they are we are getting a new account because it's so weird that she can see what we spend OUR money on.
Quoting SmashedPumpkin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Madi's*Mama:</b>" I'm assuming this was to me because I think ... [snip!] ... "</blockquote> So weird! Take out cash as much as you can for stuff. At least that way she can't know what it's for!"It is weird!! I hate it so much. I try but I hate that she knows how much money we have. We told her that we couldn't afford to do much for Christmas presents (we had money in the account but we had plans for it) but because I saved all years for DH's present and got him tickets to a pro football game she made such a fuss and felt that she should get an equally expensive gift so she wanted us to buy her a Dyson. She got a $10 picture frame from Hobby Lobby
Quoting Mommy Pwnt Pwnt[A&T]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KayMay ♥:</b>" That's one thing that I'm anxious about... ... [snip!] ... counseling ya know? I plan to just keep it a secret from anyone and not say a word about being pregnant until I am showing."