re: Porn problem. What to do...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Smokey_Taboo:</b>" You should just put porn blockers on his phone and the computer.. "</blockquote>


You're not serious?

Quoting Jennybananna:" Why do these threads always make me wanna go watch some porn."

Ha, I haven't had the urge to watch porn in months and just got some seriously mind blowing sex about an hour ago, but...I kinda just want to watch it now for smurfs and giggles.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... S Shoot. Sometimes when I'm too tired I throw the iPod at DH, say I love you, and let him do him. Lol"</blockquote>




Haha. I can't imagine doing that to my SO.. Ugh maybe I overreact

Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blair B:</b>" Omg I would freak out on my SO.. I have a suspicion ... [snip!] ... Wow that sucks. Why be so uptight? Nothing wrong with a little bit of personal time choking the chimp."

I was the same way, I was having a hard time about a year ago being present during sex I could barely even make eye contact so my So started to watch porn but he would lie to me.. And it became excessive, and even when I became present during sex again he was still wanting to watch more porn then have sex with me I felt cheated on. So I put a blocker on the computer for 4 months, I told him when I was going to do it but he was mad in the end was ok with what I did. And now I dont mind if he watches it once it awhile as long as Im the main thing.
But I really understand why women are not open to it, I even feel the porn industry in really corrupted and its not something we should support.
I had a friend who was a normal girl in highschool and now makes porno's and had or has a bad speed problem.

Quoting Blair B:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ƒideℓis ... [snip!] ... I love you, and let him do him. Lol"</blockquote> Haha. I can't imagine doing that to my SO.. Ugh maybe I overreact"

I take my husband to strip clubs.
It's pretty bomb. He'll have a stripper's tits in his face, I'll have a set of tits in mine and peek over boobage to ask him if he needs more ones. We got a private couples dance once and he got all pissy because...Well...I've got game, so the ladies love me haha.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ƒideℓis ϟ:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... S Shoot. Sometimes when I'm too tired I throw the iPod at DH, say I love you, and let him do him. Lol"</blockquote>




  iPod porn.

Quoting ♡ kat&noah (36wks):" My SO recently bought us new phones, and I have never seen someone do this before. He literally is on ... [snip!] ... is turning him off and making him do this? But it really smurfing sucks. He's obviously addicted and doesn't want to stop..."

Whoa! Now that is just borderline creepy. :-\
I mean I get that people watch porn and that's cool and all - but he sounds like he might be more obsessed with it. o_o

Tell him he needs therapy and threaten to leave.

Quoting Blair B:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jennybananna:</b>" Then you should work on that not freak out ... [snip!] ... open communication about all needs. "</blockquote> I would be so mad if I found out he watched it behind my back..."

I would bet money that he probably does. Just because he is watching on occasion doesnt mean he isnt into you. A lot of couples watch it together. I mean would you get mad if he masturbated? Doesnt he need something to masturbate to? I mean thinking of you isnt always gonna get the job done most guys (and people) need a visual.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Smokey_Taboo:</b>" I was the same way, I was having a hard time about a year ago being present during sex I could barely ... [snip!] ... should support. I had a friend who was a normal girl in highschool and now makes porno's and had or has a bad speed problem. "</blockquote>




I agree with you. And that's exactly how I feel also when having sex with him I feel like he's just thinking about porn!

Quoting Blair B:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Smokey_Taboo:</b>" I was the same way, I was having a hard ... [snip!] ... I agree with you. And that's exactly how I feel also when having sex with him I feel like he's just thinking about porn!"

That's a little extreme. :-\

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vodka Knockers:</b>" I take my husband to strip clubs. It's pretty bomb. He'll have a stripper's tits in his face, I'll have ... [snip!] ... more ones. We got a private couples dance once and he got all pissy because...Well...I've got game, so the ladies love me haha."</blockquote>


I totally want to go to a strip club with SO, but he always turns it down! I thought all dudes love strip clubs lol!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jennybananna:</b>" I would bet money that he probably does. Just because he is watching on occasion doesnt mean he isnt ... [snip!] ... something to masturbate to? I mean thinking of you isnt always gonna get the job done most guys (and people) need a visual. "</blockquote>




I'm okay with him masterbating if its to me but not to porn

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blair B:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jennybananna:</b>" I would bet money that he probably does. ... [snip!] ... done most guys (and people) need a visual. "</blockquote> I'm okay with him masterbating if its to me but not to porn"</blockquote>




Wow. You're very controlling

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blair B:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jennybananna:</b>" I would bet money that he probably does. ... [snip!] ... done most guys (and people) need a visual. "</blockquote> I'm okay with him masterbating if its to me but not to porn"</blockquote>




Well make a sex tape so he has something to watch. You sound a little insecure tbh.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blair B:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jennybananna:</b>" ... [snip!] ... I'm okay with him masterbating if its to me but not to porn"</blockquote> Wow. You're very controlling"</blockquote>