Is there someone you think about?

Occasionally? Or maybe more than you should? I have someone that I think about a lot...somtimes I dream about him and I miss him. I went on a few dates with him about two years ago...and I almost feel like I missed out because it didn't turn into a relationship. He randomly messaged me on facebook and all he said was "I'm glad we are friends...how are you" I haven't talked to him in person in over two yrs and obviously we don't hang out. I was thinking about him today...so I guess that is why it was so weird that he messaged me and said that.

Sometimes I wish I could tell him how I felt about him but...i'm still with my "SO" so I know it would be wrong.

Do any of you ladies every think about someone you shouldn't..

Quite often.

There is this one friend of mine who told me years ago (like 5 lol) she had a crush on me but she was too afraid to say anything and I had a huge crush on her too so I always wonder what that would have been like.

My "wifey" was always underage so I never took our flirting any further and now is not a good time for any of that either but I always wonder about her too.

Uh. Never had any what if guys lol.

Actually sometimes I wonder what would have happened with my best friend ever but he's gone now so I won't ever know the answer to that. His mum always tells me it was always me in his heart though so I do wonder occasionally what if I had given him a chance.

Quoting Katie♥'sherHippo:" Quite often. There is this one friend of mine who told me years ago (like 5 lol) she had a crush on ... [snip!] ... His mum always tells me it was always me in his heart though so I do wonder occasionally what if I had given him a chance."

did he pass away?

I really hate this feeling.

it doesn't help that I am like stuck in a smurffy relationship and I am alwaysss alone.

Quoting Crazyhazel89:" did he pass away? I really hate this feeling."

Yeah he overdosed a little over a year ago.

Its a really frustrating feeling when your in a relationship (or the other person is).

That also doesn't help at all.
Why are you stuck?

Quoting Katie♥'sherHippo:" Yeah he overdosed a little over a year ago. Its a really frustrating feeling when your in a relationship (or the other person is). That also doesn't help at all. Why are you stuck?"

well I'm waiting for my tax return..and I want to move into my own apartment with my daughter..but i just feel almost guilty for "taking" his daughter away. Though I'm just not happy being WITH him....so I've been staying.

I'm sorry for your loss too.......that has got to be really tough.

Quoting Crazyhazel89:" well I'm waiting for my tax return..and I want to move into my own apartment with my daughter..but i ... [snip!] ... i just feel almost guilty for "taking" his daughter away. Though I'm just not happy being WITH him....so I've been staying."

It is better for your daughter for you to be happy.
He can always visit her, or you can drop her off with him if you feel like you can.

Thank you, it is sometimes but I think I am finally starting to accept it.
It is easier for me to talk to his mum now and I only really get upset when drama happens and I can't ask him for advice :/