help and advice please ..... :S

long story .... But i'm 17 and fell pregnant. The baby's dad is 28. When i found out he tryed making me get rid of it, but i didnt want to. Now he hates me and keeps threatening me, and i dont know what to ??? I'm scared of being a single mum but i carn't keep a relationship with him. Is he in the right >>> ??? or was i wrong to say i want to keep the baby ???

if you can handle being a single mom and are able to support the baby then you do what you want to do. theres always adoption though. either way if he wants to threaten you, then goto the cops and put a restraining order on him if needed

Quoting mae lee:" long story .... But i'm 17 and fell pregnant. The baby's dad is 28. When i found out he tryed making ... [snip!] ... i carn't keep a relationship with him. Is he in the right >>> ??? or was i wrong to say i want to keep the baby ???"

Letting your child live is the best decision you can make. There are people all over who try so hard to get pregnant and they don't. If you cannot provide your child with everything he/she needs then consider an open or closed adoption. I say this because I am adopted and very thankful to be. Your baby daddy can just get over it if he's not participating in your child's life. Prayers for you and ur little one

Quoting ×ø×K·ßear×ø×:" if you can handle being a single mom and are able to support the baby then you do what you want to do. ... [snip!] ... always adoption though. either way if he wants to threaten you, then goto the cops and put a restraining order on him if needed"

If she wants to do adoption the dad has to sign.... :/ Screwed up.

But yeah I totally agree with everything you said.

Well, it's your body and your decision. If you're underage you should probably talk to your parents about this, too, so you're all on the same page. You'll really need to get your HS education finished up quickly and you'll probably need help with baby items.

If he's threatening you, you need to go to the police, imo.

no one has the right to tell you to get rid of your baby. It's your baby, Your body, Your life. I should imagine being a single mum is hard but plenty of women do it and manage great! If his threatening you and you're scared of him call the police and have a word with them.


Or call in a favour from some one bigger than him and get him sorted out ;) haha. xx

I can be a good mum and have lots of help and support from my family. I just dont think he's being fair when it takes 2 to tango :L

Quoting mae lee:" I can be a good mum and have lots of help and support from my family. I just dont think he's being fair when it takes 2 to tango :L"

welp.. that is a man for ya. sounds like he wants to be a smurftart.

The worst thing is and im not slagging him off the day i found out we was both at my doctors ... he made every excuse under the sun, then i find out that day that he's been cheating with my 16 year old .... OLD best m8   then he carryed on sleeping with her for 2 weeks before going bk to london ... he upset me so much. i couldnt be happier that im pregnant, i just didnt want it this way   i wouldnt do adoption because i love this unborn baby more then anything in the world.

Quoting mae lee:" I can be a good mum and have lots of help and support from my family. I just dont think he's being fair when it takes 2 to tango :L"

Hate men like this. Just try and stay away from him and get on with your life. I'm sure you'd be a great mum. x

Quoting Dexter's Mummy!:" Hate men like this. Just try and stay away from him and get on with your life. I'm sure you'd be a great mum. x"

thanks very much x

Quoting mae lee:" thanks very much x"

No Problem. I'm about if you wanna chat anytime, xx

Quoting mae lee:" The worst thing is and im not slagging him off the day i found out we was both at my doctors ... he made ... [snip!] ... i just didnt want it this way   i wouldnt do adoption because i love this unborn baby more then anything in the world."

Wow.... that is one sick bastard.... a 28 year old having sex with a 16 year old....

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Wow.... that is one sick bastard.... a 28 year old having sex with a 16 year old.... "

not being funny i was 16 when i met him :L My mum reckons i got too old for him ...

Quoting mae lee:" not being funny i was 16 when i met him :L My mum reckons i got too old for him ..."

Why hasnt she pressed charges yet? I know a guy like that... and he is my sons bio dad.. The time I have known him he has been with a 2 17 year olds and 2 18 year olds, 1 19, and me who was 23 at the time... and he is now 26.