re: help and advice please ..... :S

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Why hasnt she pressed charges yet? I know a guy like that... and he is my sons bio dad.. The time I ... [snip!] ... have known him he has been with a 2 17 year olds and 2 18 year olds, 1 19, and me who was 23 at the time... and he is now 26. "

casue 16 is the legal age in the uk. x

Quoting Dexter's Mummy!:" casue 16 is the legal age in the uk. x"

Oh   that is digusting... way disgusting!

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Why hasnt she pressed charges yet? I know a guy like that... and he is my sons bio dad.. The time I ... [snip!] ... have known him he has been with a 2 17 year olds and 2 18 year olds, 1 19, and me who was 23 at the time... and he is now 26. "

I really don't know i guess don't want to cause no more smurf for myself really as i was 17 when i fell pregnant and 16 when i first met him and i consented to sleeping with him so there is no crime made apart from him being seriously sick in the head ""

With how worried you are already, I say you will rock as a mom. And if he can't see that, then he can smurf off. And if your famiy is supportive, then go for it. And you can always rant on here.

Quoting mae lee:" I really don't know i guess don't want to cause no more smurf for myself really as i was 17 when i fell ... [snip!] ... first met him and i consented to sleeping with him so there is no crime made apart from him being seriously sick in the head """

That really... yeah... wow... what a douche... Are you sure your friend isnt knocked up either?

Quoting Brandi Milam:" With how worried you are already, I say you will rock as a mom. And if he can't see that, then he can smurf off. And if your famiy is supportive, then go for it. And you can always rant on here."

thanks for the kind words ... just needed some advice really being so young and all .

Quoting Brandi Milam:" With how worried you are already, I say you will rock as a mom. And if he can't see that, then he can smurf off. And if your famiy is supportive, then go for it. And you can always rant on here."

THIS! yes, BG has saved my sanity so much over the last few months!   x

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" That really... yeah... wow... what a douche... Are you sure your friend isnt knocked up either? "

yeah that's what i said ... i would of laughed to be quite honest ... but he would of done the same thing, given her smurf then ran! but i know she's not because when he went back to his home town she got bk with her ex . and i don't speak to her no more.

Quoting mae lee:" thanks for the kind words ... just needed some advice really being so young and all ."

Im pregnant at 21 and I am scared as hell. I had a miscarriage when I was 17 before I could tell anyone but my SO. My sister had her 1st 2 weeks after turning 18. You just gotta be strong honey.

Quoting mae lee:" yeah that's what i said ... i would of laughed to be quite honest ... but he would of done the same thing, ... [snip!] ... ran! but i know she's not because when he went back to his home town she got bk with her ex . and i don't speak to her no more."

Oh... ok. My youngest sons bio dad is a cheater and a liar and yeah. His oldest son is 8 now... then there is a soon to be 4 year old. Then there is my son who will be 15 months on the 3rd. And then his 4th son is due on the 12th next month. I dont know how many girls he has gotten pregnant that have gotten abortions or I dont know aobut.

Quoting Brandi Milam:" Im pregnant at 21 and I am scared as hell. I had a miscarriage when I was 17 before I could tell anyone but my SO. My sister had her 1st 2 weeks after turning 18. You just gotta be strong honey."

well i'm not gunna say i'm not scared... but in a good way. i will try my hardest and be the best mummy i can be.

Quoting mae lee:" well i'm not gunna say i'm not scared... but in a good way. i will try my hardest and be the best mummy i can be. "

That is good! I was 19 when I had my oldest. It is hard. but if you have the mind frame that you will be a good mom then... yeah you will be.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Oh... ok. My youngest sons bio dad is a cheater and a liar and yeah. His oldest son is 8 now... then ... [snip!] ... due on the 12th next month. I dont know how many girls he has gotten pregnant that have gotten abortions or I dont know aobut. "

blimey :O doesn't sound good at all // i hate men .

Quoting mae lee:" blimey :O doesn't sound good at all // i hate men ."

No its not good..... I dont deal with him.. thank god! lol. I placed our son for adoption, so.. yeah. I won that battle.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" No its not good..... I dont deal with him.. thank god! lol. I placed our son for adoption, so.. yeah. I won that battle. "

well you've got to do what you thinks best.