Take care of your god damn kid ffs vent!

So this girl in my area got pregnant at 14 and had her kid at 15 (17 now) the dad did a runner and then knocked another girl up but that's a different story. She didn't even want the kid but decided to keep and now it's like she can't be bothered she NEVER has her, her friend always has her or her mum whilst she out clubbing and partying. I mean this kid is flipping reckless she even let her two year old run out of the park and nearly out of a gate to a busy main road at least 2 times and then she takes her puts her in her buggy and gives her brownies, doesn't even tell her off for doing it.
It snowed her and was like -6/7 so she spent all day in a field with her two year old in just a coat for over 6 hours the kid was smurfing freezing. She doesn't encourage her to talk or play.

She can't cook she can't even dust -.- So she decided she'd move out and that she doesn't need them skills in life so won't use them. She spends all her time buying hats, t-shirts, shoes at like £50 a pop then post it all on facebook like oh hi this is what I'm spending my benefit on.

I'm sorry but take care of your god damn kid yourself, learn to smurfing cook, learn to smurfing clean and stop acting like your freaking 12

Pointless vent but it's a joke

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rock Paper Scissors Lizar:</b>" So this girl in my area got pregnant at 14 and had her kid at 15 (17 now) the dad did a runner and then ... [snip!] ... yourself, learn to smurfing cook, learn to smurfing clean and stop acting like your freaking 12 Pointless vent but it's a joke "</blockquote>




Seriously? It's not your kid.

Mind your own smurfing business.

She is a damn child...either help her or stay your nosy ass out of her business.

Do you know her personally? How do you know she can't cook? Clean? She obviously just needs guidance.

Quoting Big Booty Heaux™:" She is a damn child...either help her or stay your nosy ass out of her business."

  

SMH

You seem to know a lot about her, everyone makes mistakes. Im not a perfect mother and my kids have attempted to run away from me numerous times. I cant "tell them off" its what they do. Id just mind my own.

I can't tell if your really jealous or not..
It sounds like jealousy.

Quoting GrumpsMama.:" I can't tell if your really jealous or not.. It sounds like jealousy. "

Yupp!! A jealous person with stalker tendencies

Quoting Big Booty Heaux™:" She is a damn child...either help her or stay your nosy ass out of her business."

  OP I know people like this are frustrating but if you don't KNOW any better you can't DO any better. Maybe she just needs some help. You can offer easy cook books, guidance, etc.

Trust me, I know how frustrating this is, but just complaining about it... it won't help. You can say "hey, I noticed your child looked really cold with just a coat, I have some extra mittens/hats/boots, what size is she again?"

She's a baby, who had a baby. She never grew up herself. It's exactly why teen moms get picked on so much, girls like her. Not all teen moms grow up, some just don't know how. It's a shame for that poor baby, hopefully she figures it out soon.

Quoting anonymom + 1.5:"   OP I know people like this are frustrating but if you don't KNOW any better you can't DO any better. ... [snip!] ... "hey, I noticed your child looked really cold with just a coat, I have some extra mittens/hats/boots, what size is she again?""

I just hate that people think when young girls get pregnant that some ADULT switch is supposed to flip on in their brain because they are knocked up. They need guidance and to be shown whats right and wrong just like a teen without a kid.

Quoting Big Booty Heaux™:" I just hate that people think when young girls get pregnant that some ADULT switch is supposed to flip ... [snip!] ... brain because they are knocked up. They need guidance and to be shown whats right and wrong just like a teen without a kid."

I agree. I didn't understand that at first but the more teen moms I meet, the more I see how true it is. Having a baby doesn't make you an adult, a mature parent. You still have a LOT of growing to do yourself.

She doesn't except help that the problem.

I have a child so I'm not jealous of her it just pains me to see anyone let their kid nearly get run over because the mother was to busy to notice her kid run out of the park numerous times.

We said to her that her kid looks cold and maybe she should head inside for a bit but she didn't care she wanted to stay out with her friends. I've offered her help with cooking but like she says why her mum does it all.

Quoting Rock Paper Scissors Lizar:" She doesn't except help that the problem. I have a child so I'm not jealous of her it just pains me ... [snip!] ... care she wanted to stay out with her friends. I've offered her help with cooking but like she says why her mum does it all. "

Well her not wanting your help doesnt prevent you from minding your own business does it? You tried, she declined, move on.

Quoting Rock Paper Scissors Lizar:" She doesn't except help that the problem. I have a child so I'm not jealous of her it just pains me ... [snip!] ... care she wanted to stay out with her friends. I've offered her help with cooking but like she says why her mum does it all. "

You sound jealous that she can go out and party....
If she doesn't want your help, you can't force her to take it.