Quoting Cat Abbott:" Wow. In BC, you don't even see an OB unless you're high risk or have complications, or if you prefer ... [snip!] ... one I suppose. Sometimes you will be sent to consult with an OB, but midwives or family practice doctors provide primary care."
I just learned that here in the states 90 some % of women see a doctor for no reason, and everywhere else it's only if you're high risk. Idk for my first pregnancy, and my age I just went with a doctor I didn't know any better I guess. Made me wonder though and I look into it. I'll be trying a midwife next time. hopefully years from now. But Yeah OP I'd try and find a midwife. She sounds like a bitch.