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He sounds like my son. You may want to look into ODD and how to deal with it.

Go back and read what you just wrote.

The kid yells because thats how people talk to him. I would be angry if i were him too

Quoting Amberchik78:" Go back and read what you just wrote. The kid yells because thats how people talk to him. I would be angry if i were him too"

I don't literally scream in his face.
I just use a stern voice and sorry but when he's biting and hitting my other son, of course i'm going to tell him no or discipline him.

& I don't hit so i have no idea where he got that from.

Quoting Amberchik78:" Go back and read what you just wrote. The kid yells because thats how people talk to him. I would be angry if i were him too"

Really?

I've tried many different discipline methods and he still acts the same.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Hairspray:</b>" He sounds like my son. You may want to look into ODD and how to deal with it."</blockquote>




Ur son has odd??? My dean got diagnosed with that in oct

Btw op I also thought he sounded like my son   maybe make an appt. With mental health...

Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Hairspray:</b>" He sounds like my son. You may want to look ... [snip!] ... dean got diagnosed with that in oct Btw op I also thought he sounded like my son   maybe make an appt. With mental health..."

What is ODD ?
I've heard of ADD & ADHD but not ODD.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amberchik78:</b>" Go back and read what you just wrote. The kid yells because thats how people talk to him. I would be angry if i were him too"</blockquote>




I've yelled, talked too, reaasoned, explained, ignored, and cried to him he will still act the same... what do u think I should do??

Quoting Hairspray:" Really? I've tried many different discipline methods and he still acts the same."

I've tried using positive reenforcement, redirection, time outs, ignoring the negative behavior - rewarding positive behavior
I've tried just about everything i can think of.

Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Hairspray:</b>" He sounds like my son. You may want to look ... [snip!] ... dean got diagnosed with that in oct Btw op I also thought he sounded like my son   maybe make an appt. With mental health..."

He hasn't been diagnosed with it but I would be willing to put money on it that he is ADHD and ODD.

I've actually read alot of your posts about your son. I was going to contact you about a month ago.

That's how my daughter is. she has some issues, but speaking calmly to her and comforting her when she is confused has helped immensely. She hd actually been very pleasant this week

Quoting Wonderstruck ♥:" I've tried using positive reenforcement, redirection, time outs, ignoring the negative behavior - rewarding positive behavior I've tried just about everything i can think of."

Don't listen to her. If I didn't yell at my son when he is out of control he would walk all over me. Who cares if that isn't the way she likes to discipline.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Wonderstruck ♥:</b>" What is ODD ? I've heard of ADD & ADHD but not ODD."</blockquote>




My son was diagnosed with adhd and disruptive behaviour disorder in sept,
Then oct the odd sky rocketed, that's when he got diagnosed with odd

Odd is opositional defiant disorder,



http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oppositional_defiant_disorder

Sorry I'm on my phone this is what I printed out for all my family to kinda go along with for Dean.