re: let it go?

Quoting One*day*at*a*time:" We have been together for over 9 years. So yea...."

oh well that changes things! i would definitely bring it up even if it was 8 years ago its not okay!

<blockquote><b>Quoting One*day*at*a*time:</b>" We have been together for over 9 years. So yea...."</blockquote>




Oh hell yes, I'd bring it up then

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Smurfrfrf that. Is that the only one? What exactly does it say?"

Here is the response he sent....
"I'm 24yr old male. Looking to give what you want let me know a little more about you and lets see if we can hook up"

Yea..... there is 2 more all sent on the same date they all say diff things but this one is the worst.

Quoting One*day*at*a*time:" Here is the response he sent.... "I'm 24yr old male. Looking to give what you want let me know a little ... [snip!] ... see if we can hook up" Yea..... there is 2 more all sent on the same date they all say diff things but this one is the worst."

Were phone numbers or addresses ever exchanged? Did she ever respond to that? I mean, yeah I'd still be pissed and bring it up and it's still horrible that he did even that. He wouldnt have sent messages if he didnt plan to follow through.
Just wondering if there's more proof.

Quoting One*day*at*a*time:" Here is the response he sent.... "I'm 24yr old male. Looking to give what you want let me know a little ... [snip!] ... see if we can hook up" Yea..... there is 2 more all sent on the same date they all say diff things but this one is the worst."

does the last message have a number or any contact information to know that it went through?

Agggh this is killing me right now. I feel kinda guilty for snooping but he left it open on my computer and he has full access to all my stuff. The sad thing is I didn't have to look hard and I never expected to find this. The only reason I looked was because he has alot of messages from some other sex site like "so and so flirted with you" so I checked the sent messages figuring well if he hasn't replied or opened the messages than they are harmless. Turns out those ones were harmless but I found worse...... I also fonud that on the 5th of this month he signed up for some sex social network. I am not too upset about that though because I found his profile and he has it as a couple looking for a woman and my age and stuff on there too. I just didn't know he had done that, I wish he would have at least told me. My mind is running like crazy right now...... now how to approach it......

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" That would give him time to think up excuses though..."

Eh, not like he would come up with a believable one lol

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Were phone numbers or addresses ever exchanged? Did she ever respond to that? I mean, yeah I'd still ... [snip!] ... that he did even that. He wouldnt have sent messages if he didnt plan to follow through. Just wondering if there's more proof."

she replied and said to contact her somewhere else. thats all i got. since it was so long ago i cant check his phone or deleted emails. DAMN IT why didnt i find this sooner?!?! sorry typos bfing a baby so its hard to type

Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Eh, not like he would come up with a believable one lol"

yep, lol

I'd leave it up long enough for him to sit and see it and me watch his reaction.

Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Eh, not like he would come up with a believable one lol"

Guys can be crafty lol
When DH was addicted to heroin I had to confront him face to face and catch him completely off guard to be able to tell if he was lying or not, and even then he would ALWAYS come up with believable lies.
If he knew it was coming forget about it. I'd have no leverage.

Quoting One*day*at*a*time:" she replied and said to contact her somewhere else. thats all i got. since it was so long ago i cant ... [snip!] ... i cant check his phone or deleted emails. DAMN IT why didnt i find this sooner?!?! sorry typos bfing a baby so its hard to type"

Like on a different site?

forward it to your email so he can't delete it. my SO did that and I forwarded everything. I'd still have an issue with the recent one. he could always say "well my SO backed out but I'm still game"

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Guys can be crafty lol When DH was addicted to heroin I had to confront him face to face and catch ... [snip!] ... and even then he would ALWAYS come up with believable lies. If he knew it was coming forget about it. I'd have no leverage."

Yeah sometimes..I'm good at knowing when SO is lying though.

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Like on a different site?"

One linked her profile which when I click on it says it's no longer a supported feature, It appeared to be a profile on google groups maybe, I am not sure.
This is the response from the one that I posted:
"Hi

Thank you for reply.

Please look at my pictures at http://hlsvabbwcqntqdnplwhmcwnhqhzf.blogspot.com/ and contact me via that page

Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Yeah sometimes..I'm good at knowing when SO is lying though. "

I am too. Like before I even catch him I usually know when something is up. How did I not catch this?!